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Spock
May 19th, 2011, 09:36 PM
ok so i have been going out with this girl for 2 weeks now but everytime we start to talk it always ends up going completely flat and i was wondering how to be more interesting when i talk to her and what to bring up.:P
thanks:yeah:

emt.Cam
May 19th, 2011, 09:50 PM
I'd recommend that you try to initiate a conversation by starting off by talking about something you have in common. This could be as a simple as: television, hobbies, movies, games, what you're going to do later, etc. Something small normally sparks something into bigger and leads into more. A couple weeks isn't the long and you're always going to learn about someone which will make it easier to discuss things.

The only other thing I would recommend is to be yourself; don't try to impress her with something you're not. You'll be just fine.

Spock
May 19th, 2011, 09:58 PM
i have nothing to impess her with lol iam lucky she even said yes!

Trickster
May 19th, 2011, 11:50 PM
This always gets people. What you need to do, is probably an activity if conversation isnt flowing as good. Go to a movie, and comment on it. Then use this method-
trailing off.
Heres an example:
Your talking about movies, movies make you think about actors, actors make you think about scandals and pressure of being famous, this makes you talk about arnold schzanegro and u talk about cheating in relationships and then you talk about relationships and what you want in them and the goods. You have to piggy back off the last topic, pick out little things and trail off into a new one when the old topic starts to fizzle