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Mikkkke
January 24th, 2007, 01:45 AM
So my best friend was really liking this one girl. so being the friend i am i tried to hook them up. but she ended up liking me and also him. i got to know her also and started to like her also. i want to date this girl but i also dont want to lose my best friend over it. ANy advice?

The Resurrected One
January 24th, 2007, 01:49 AM
Yes, I have some advice:

This happens to lots of people, so it's pretty common. I suggest that maybe you both just become normal friends with her. See what happens. If one of you finds another girl as time goes on, then the one that doesn't find another girl will stick with the one you guys have now.

Was zhis helpful?

Mikkkke
January 24th, 2007, 01:51 AM
okk , i havent thought of that but thanks. any one else?

The Resurrected One
January 24th, 2007, 01:52 AM
Yeah, I guess my info was useless poop. Sorry if it was. I'm not good at these things.

Mikkkke
January 24th, 2007, 01:58 AM
no it was good. i just never thought of that. and i wanted to see if any one else had any ideas

The Resurrected One
January 24th, 2007, 02:02 AM
Oh ok, thanks then.

Kuraudo-sama
January 24th, 2007, 02:42 AM
Talk it out, if you want her then let her chose between you and your friend.

itswhatever_yep
January 24th, 2007, 02:43 AM
Maybe you could talk to your friend about this and explain to him that you dont want him to get mad at you but you ended up likeing her as well and tell him that maybe if she likes both of you it might not be worth your time and in the future if she decides which one of you she reallys likes you can talk about it and hopefully come to an understanding. Its probably not the best advice but I tried.

Hyper
January 24th, 2007, 08:18 AM
Seeing as I dont know your or her feelings 100% correctly.. Id say just wait let your friend make a move on her.. Relationships in our age arent long, only rarely and I think your friend wouldn't mind if you go out with her later.. But yeah you could talk to him depends on how much you like the girl

tomkapsalis
January 24th, 2007, 09:31 AM
I would use the old saying. (May cause Offense) Bros before hoes. Your mates will be there when a girl dumps you. I always put my mates first.
Tom

some1
January 24th, 2007, 12:21 PM
im in the same boat as you (sortof, i think). there's this guy i like and my friend seems to like him too....even though i liked him first.

anyway, i liked JNJ's advice. the both of you should be friends with her first and see what happens.

RowanVer.3.0
January 25th, 2007, 12:17 AM
Dude, see it from your friend's point of view. If I was him, and you did that, I'd think you were a real prick.

Don't do it. Chances are it won't be anything special, and thus not worth it.

Mikkkke
January 26th, 2007, 05:00 PM
Dude, see it from your friend's point of view. If I was him, and you did that, I'd think you were a real prick.

Don't do it. Chances are it won't be anything special, and thus not worth it.
i get where your comin from but how would i be a prick i was tryin to hook them up and then she started to like me?he ask me to help him. so i did and she likes me and him n ow

RowanVer.3.0
January 28th, 2007, 01:08 AM
Whatever, I'm just telling you straight up, he'll be pissed. I'm scatter-brained tonight, so I don't feel like explaining why...

But he will be if you move in on her.