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bhoyS
May 19th, 2011, 04:57 PM
What In your opinion is the best thing about being gay?


What do You do that is stereotypically gay?

Mewp
May 19th, 2011, 08:33 PM
Well, it's always nice when people buy you drinks.

In terms of stereotypical behavior? Apparently very little, but I do dress in fairly fluro clothing.

Syvelocin
May 19th, 2011, 09:24 PM
Best thing? Well... hmm.. I don't see much difference. I like that it gives me something to be confident about. I'm not a very confident person, but realizing that I'm gay and being with a girl has been really increasing my confidence in who I am.

Err... well. I like girls so... that's a lesbian stereotype. :P I'm not very stereotypically lesbian. I'm very feminine, and I like feminine girls. The only thing really is that I'm a liberal, tree-hugging vegetarian.

Tristin.
May 20th, 2011, 01:45 AM
the best thing? i have no idea, whats the best thing about being straight? if you can answer that, then ill answer this :P

stereotypical thingymajig... ummmmm, well my laug is high pitched, um im colourful at times, i like boys? :P

bhoyS
May 20th, 2011, 08:29 AM
the best thing? i have no idea, whats the best thing about being straight? if you can answer that, then ill answer this :P

stereotypical thingymajig... ummmmm, well my laug is high pitched, um im colourful at times, i like boys? :P

who says im straight :what: I cant even think straight ;)

Tristin.
May 20th, 2011, 11:32 AM
who says im straight :what: I cant even think straight ;)

hahah, no i wasnt asking you as if you were, im saying in general lol

bhoyS
May 20th, 2011, 03:55 PM
hahah, no i wasnt asking you as if you were, im saying in general lol

haha:)

Lights
May 21st, 2011, 09:59 AM
The best thing about being gay was coming out the closet. It took a long time for me to reach a point where I felt comfortable to just tell people who I was, but I got there about 2 months ago. I got help from the boy I like (who's straight) to tell other boys in the year and such. I could manage the girls myself since I generally only hang out with them. The boys who I suspected wouldn't take the news so well actually seemed to. I thought I was going to be judged really negatively, but they don't even say anything to me! I think it could be because they had some respect for me before I came out.

The boys took it so much better than I ever thought they would. The girls were absolutely fine too, as I thought they would be. I didn't doubt they would because they had nothing to be threatened by. Coming Out the closet released me and made me feel so much more free and vindicated. People have respect for me for not only telling them, but being true to myself, and being proud of who I am. I don't throw my sexuality in anyone's face, therefore I'm not annoying or harming anyone. I feel individual and quite unique because I'm gay; it's a characteristic I possess that nobody else my age in my life currently has. It's just great being who I want to be now, not hiding away trapped in a cage of scaredness.

As far as how much I relate to the stereotype goes, I've been talking to people about it a lot recently and they think I talk with a kind of gay 'slur' to my voice, and I even walk in a gay way apparently. :rolleyes:
I really don't consider myself to close to the stereotype though of being a fashion guru who loves shopping and dancing. I play COD and watch WWE, yup.

theatregeek
May 21st, 2011, 07:39 PM
Best thing about being gay is probably just the social freedom that comes with it. Like straight people I feel are concerned to a degree that people will think they're gay. If you're gay then you don't have to worry about that and you can do what you want haha

Stereotypically, I LOVE theatre, I can sometimes "act" gay (but my friends tell me I can turn it off quickly) and I like boys. :P

Love.Hate
May 22nd, 2011, 03:38 PM
The best thing- It makes up part of who i am, and im not ashamed? I dont know.. Maybe the fact that it has given me more confidence to be an individual.

I dont do anything steriotypical.. sorry im just boring old me :P

RoseyCadaver
May 22nd, 2011, 07:29 PM
Umm I'm bi and the best gay part of me is well,no real life friends know :[!

But I love acting and I'm very good at it,that would be a stereotype :P!

zackm
May 22nd, 2011, 08:52 PM
im bi and the bestthing about it is boys.

stereotype, i do cheerleading and love it.

Starlight Blaze
May 22nd, 2011, 09:31 PM
The best thing about being straight... I'd have to say coming out of the closet. It was very hard, but it helped me realize that my friends really do like me, and will support me, and it was a real confidence booster.

Stereotypical...well i guess most gay guys are considered unatheletic? maybe? oh and I've discovered that I love shopping for clothes ;)

MoveAlong
May 22nd, 2011, 09:44 PM
I think it a little pointless to say what the "best part of being gay" is. I mean, it's just part of who I am, it's not like it comes with many specific perks.

All I can say is I'm very content with liking men. I mean they're just beautiful! But I think I could say that about being straight too. See what I mean?

Stereotypically I have a higher, more expressive voice and I enjoy What Not To Wear because I like how people look when they're in nice clothes.

Mewp
May 23rd, 2011, 02:28 AM
I really don't consider myself to close to the stereotype though of being a fashion guru who loves shopping and dancing.

How did I forget about this aspect of my personality!? :rolleyes:

Only second hand shopping, though. :yes:

Joshuagoesrawr2
May 24th, 2011, 04:00 PM
Best thing: well it's part of who i am so its just like straight ppl.....btw im bi

stereotypically is loving to shop and weaklings interested in fashion.......I do like fashion but im not weak. yes i am skinny