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Concamp
May 18th, 2011, 05:23 PM
Ok so i know i like girls, but i havent yet had any sexual experiences with girls yet, but a few times me and my guy friend j/o each other, bj and had anal sex. But we only did it a few times. I dont really think i like guys, but sometimes when i j/o i still picture guys or my friend. Im confused if im bi or not. Please help :s

Infidelitas
May 18th, 2011, 05:25 PM
This goes in the section Teen sexuality.
im moving it there
:arrow: Teen Sexuality

amigo93
May 18th, 2011, 06:31 PM
Is there an emotional feeling as well? And if you had sex with a guy, you might not be straight.

Wicked_Syn
May 18th, 2011, 06:33 PM
Think of it like this.

If you enjoy the sexual experience with a male, then theres no denying it. You have some gayness in you.

If you think you will enjoy a sexual experience with a female, then you have some straightness in you aswell.

Put it together and you could be bi-curious.

Concamp
May 18th, 2011, 06:33 PM
Well i dont really think that i would ever date a guy... I think it would be too different for me

Wicked_Syn
May 18th, 2011, 06:37 PM
Well i dont really think that i would ever date a guy... I think it would be too different for me

I think of it like this.

If i'm willing to date a guy, and a girl. Both genders with equal interest, then I am bi-sexual. Not bi-curious.

BUT if i'm willing to date a girl, NOT a guy, but will engage in sexual activities with BOTH genders, then I"m bi-curious.

I'm bi-curious. I've thought about it for a long time.

Concamp
May 18th, 2011, 06:44 PM
Allright then i guess im bi-curious, i think i already knew that, just wanted to clarify. Thanks :)

Joshuagoesrawr2
May 18th, 2011, 06:55 PM
I was like that, not knowing what i was and i found that i am atracted to girls yet j/o to guys. If you question even the thought, then its most likely that you are.

restricted NA
May 18th, 2011, 07:10 PM
If you have more than just physical feeling for the same sex than perhaps you are bi. But also if you enjoy these sexual activities and do them frequently maybe your bi. The best explanation is that its probably just hormones and other neurological chemicals bouncing around, nothing out of the ordinary for a teenager. Hope this helped :)

RoseyCadaver
May 19th, 2011, 09:59 AM
You must have some physical attraction,if you do emotional for them too ,then yes you might be bi leaning towards girls.At the same time you could just be bi-curious ,you know?Do you feel bi?You're the one to answer that,but you do have some bi tendencies.

Spook
May 19th, 2011, 10:17 AM
There's so many questions lik this on VT.

You were probably just experimenting.

Explore your feelings.

Problem solved. :D

Racer4life25
May 19th, 2011, 03:41 PM
i am the same the way dude. i could probably never date a guy but i like to do stuff with them lol

Fishes
May 19th, 2011, 04:14 PM
it probably just curiosity unless u have emotional attration

CaptainObvious
May 19th, 2011, 04:21 PM
dating and sexuality don't actually have anything to do with each other. there are lots of guys who i am sexually attracted to that, for one reason or another, i would never date. and i'm gay.

sexuality is about sexual attraction. if you are sexually attracted to some guys, and also sexually attracted to some girls, you are bisexual. "bi-curious" and labels like that are just things people have made up to avoid having to label themselves bisexual or gay.

mrbob360
May 20th, 2011, 03:26 PM
Well i dont really think that i would ever date a guy... I think it would be too different for me

then you are not emotionally attracted to guys to be bi or gay you have to be both emotionally and physically attracted to guys but ur jus curious about others it perfectly normal and nothing to worry about