Uggh...

[spw184]

Ok, unlike all them people posting recently, i know i am gay. Thats just the way it is. HOWEVER, i am an in the closet gay. (Big surprise ._.) ANYWAYS, one of my pretty good friends who i think is straight, has been getting.. lets say.. more touchy feely, for example he now will like touch my back somtimes, make subtle movements on my thighs, ect. Now if wants to go im all for that, in fact i've been wating him ever since i met him. but if he is straight... and he's doing this unconsiously... not only would i blow my cover, but i might also lose a really good friend.
Im pretty much lost right now. :/

[Contra]

I think you should do to him the same things he does to you, but not exhaggerating so you don't "blow your cover", that would be a good way to find out what's happening. Or, if you feel confident enough, you can talk about the things he does to you, so he can explain it. But don't get your hopes up too high, because it's most likely a product of your good and close friendship, although he can be curious or even bi or gay.

[Hairy14uk]

Just see how it goes for now, if he is trying to get closer to you and you don't stop him then he'll assume it's ok and he might get the confidence to talk to you about it, you both win. If he's not doing it intentionally and you don't mention it, he'll likely stop doing it and nobody gets hurt.

If you want though you could talk to him one day, maybe the next time he gets 'touchy feely' just ask him why, if you get the chance come out to him, if not then it's not the end of the world.

[Joshh97]

Sleepover time, with one bed and sex talk!
Oh btw, I am glad to be back :D