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SimSailorNick
May 17th, 2011, 08:54 AM
It's the same guy in my previous post. I think he's becoming more annoyed with me everyday so I just want to tell him. I was thinking of telling him that the reason behind my behavior towards him is because of that. I don't really care if I freak him out and we don't become friends anymore because I don't think there's any use with talking to someone without him knowing your real feelings towards him. I still have a year of class with him so i don't know how that's going to turn out. What do you think?

Spook
May 17th, 2011, 08:57 AM
I didn't even have to read the post (though I did) to answer this question. Anyways, you will never find out the things you could have if you don't ask him out. Tell him you like him. Worst case scenario, he ignores you for the rest of the year. If so, would you really have wanted to be with him in the first place if he was going to be like that. I know it seems harder said than done, but you will never know if you don't try. Tell him you like him. :)

SimSailorNick
May 17th, 2011, 09:02 AM
I didn't even have to read the post (though I did) to answer this question. Anyways, you will never find out the things you could have if you don't ask him out. Tell him you like him. Worst case scenario, he ignores you for the rest of the year. If so, would you really have wanted to be with him in the first place if he was going to be like that. I know it seems harder said than done, but you will never know if you don't try. Tell him you like him. :)

Follow up question: Can i tell him through text or IM?

Spook
May 17th, 2011, 09:05 AM
Hmm...it seems so much easier through text or IM rather than face-to-face, but really the best way is personal contact. You really need to talk to himm personally to tell him your feelings.

SimSailorNick
May 17th, 2011, 09:10 AM
Hmm...it seems so much easier through text or IM rather than face-to-face, but really the best way is personal contact. You really need to talk to himm personally to tell him your feelings.

I really do want to tell him in person but the thing is, our school starts in a month and he's too busy to go out. Should i wait that long, should i force him to go out with me or what?

Spook
May 17th, 2011, 09:19 AM
Hmm...maybe wait...or you could schedule a date at a coffee shop or something, buy him a drink, then tell him there? Kind of ease into it, find out when he's available.

EDIT: Also, don't be very insistant or obvious, just be casual like: "Hey, wanna get a drink or something this week? I haven't hung with you in a while."

SimSailorNick
May 17th, 2011, 09:28 AM
Hmm...maybe wait...or you could schedule a date at a coffee shop or something, buy him a drink, then tell him there? Kind of ease into it, find out when he's available.

EDIT: Also, don't be very insistant or obvious, just be casual like: "Hey, wanna get a drink or something this week? I haven't hung with you in a while."

I already tried to ask him out. Twice actually. But he's really busy because he trains from noon to night.

bluestar201270
May 18th, 2011, 01:18 AM
wait some days

djrandom
May 18th, 2011, 02:47 AM
You should tell him because everyone deserves to know

DerBear
May 18th, 2011, 06:22 AM
asking someone out i guess is like jumping into a cold swiming pool deep breath then take the plunge

you should do it you never know how it could turn out