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moon_lit_angel
May 16th, 2011, 01:38 PM
gone 20 days without sh.. dont know if i can keep it up

so upset.. really dont know how to feel..

yea people supposed to be my friend dont even care!!! i give up :(

i ask you are you ok. you dont ask me..

I need someone right now :'(

HandheldOutlaw
May 16th, 2011, 05:18 PM
So sorry to hear this, but 20 days is amazing. (: That takes quite a lot.
One things that really keeps me from sh is playing the 5 minute game.
I give myself five minutes of space, time just for me, and I try to distract myself for that period of time. At the end of the five minutes I allow myself to sh if I really, REALLY need to. Most of the time though, I push for another five minutes. Sometimes I last an entire night. It sounds silly but it's really helped me.
I know the feeling. When I don't know what to feel, I try to pick my mix of (or lack of) feelings apart, and try to associate them with a past situation or event. That helps me a bit sometimes.

I hope you're okay, and you can always contact me if you need to.
x Take care

NobodysCupOf Tea
May 16th, 2011, 05:32 PM
Don't give up those amazing 20 days! You can be strong :) I'm always here I you wana talk, just let me know! Never give up <3

moon_lit_angel
May 16th, 2011, 05:39 PM
So sorry to hear this, but 20 days is amazing. (: That takes quite a lot.
One things that really keeps me from sh is playing the 5 minute game.
I give myself five minutes of space, time just for me, and I try to distract myself for that period of time. At the end of the five minutes I allow myself to sh if I really, REALLY need to. Most of the time though, I push for another five minutes. Sometimes I last an entire night. It sounds silly but it's really helped me.
I know the feeling. When I don't know what to feel, I try to pick my mix of (or lack of) feelings apart, and try to associate them with a past situation or event. That helps me a bit sometimes.

I hope you're okay, and you can always contact me if you need to.
x Take care

Thanks hun..Well i've tried push it off and i have so far. but dont know if i can anymore :( x

Don't give up those amazing 20 days! You can be strong :) I'm always here I you wana talk, just let me know! Never give up <3

thanks hun.. i know its amazing but its not good enough :( i've put on weight and just ugh :(

Magenta
May 16th, 2011, 07:37 PM
20 days. Wow. I don't think I've ever made it that far. Congrats. Don't mess that up. 20 days is so great. If you need to talk, seriously PM me. I'm usually on for awhile. :)

georgiamay
May 17th, 2011, 02:50 AM
:hug3:

20 days is amazing, you don't want to throw that all away do you?
Whoever it is that's making you feel this way, maybe you can prove to them that you can get through it without them? You're strong, you can get through it.

Once you push through the urge, you'll feel better. Maybe not instantly like you would if you hurt yourself, but in the long run, you'll feel better for not doing it. Hurting yourself isn't an effective way to deal with anything. The release is short term but the scars are long term, and it's not worth it.

moon_lit_angel
May 17th, 2011, 03:22 PM
20 days. Wow. I don't think I've ever made it that far. Congrats. Don't mess that up. 20 days is so great. If you need to talk, seriously PM me. I'm usually on for awhile. :)
Thanks.. i will do.. 22 now :/


:hug3:

20 days is amazing, you don't want to throw that all away do you?
Whoever it is that's making you feel this way, maybe you can prove to them that you can get through it without them? You're strong, you can get through it.

Once you push through the urge, you'll feel better. Maybe not instantly like you would if you hurt yourself, but in the long run, you'll feel better for not doing it. Hurting yourself isn't an effective way to deal with anything. The release is short term but the scars are long term, and it's not worth it.


Thanks georgia, i've made it 22 days :/