Gf gone too far?:(

[Nethalgic]

I'm 16 in hs and I have never kissed a girl before in my life. I have had chances, but never felt it was right (i have had quite a few girlfriends). I recently started dating this girl, and have yet to do anything with her. Today I was talking to my friend and I found out she has already had sex. I really like this girl, but when I heard that it devastated me. I wanted my first kiss to be special not just something new for me (the exact reason I have yet to kiss). However I'm a sophomore now and that gap for first kisses is quickly closing. What should i do? break it off or just go with it?

[Josiah7]

Its up to you, maybe she was ready. Its all a personal thing. Its all up to you :)

[Tristin.]

i dont understand your distress?

so because she has had sex, your not going to kiss her? your logic is flawed in my opinion, just because she has had sex does not mean your first kiss wont be special. if you love the girl, it will be special, regardless of what she has or hasnt done.

[Iam.]

I know exactly how you feel and what your saying. If you really love something you want them to be yours and you being the only one to kiss her, if she has had sex just the knowledge that another guy has kissed her and had sex with her is a horrible feeling it doesn't feel then like you have anything special. It doesn't feel like shes all yours, just knowing there was another guy she probably said i love you to and other stuff is honestly weird. hard to explain.