This Boy

[The Resurrected One]

I know there have been gazillion threads on this topic, but I believe mine might be different:

I am 14-years-old, and I have the hots for a 17-year-old Mexican guy in my Graphics class. His name is Adrian (not gonna give the last name), and he is very straight (he even admits being a homophobe). I find him sexy and hot, and I would like to date him. But I'm too scared, and asking him something like this might turn out bad. So, I need some advice. He already has a girlfriend, and I don't really want to ruin their relationship by Bisexual Little Johnny K (me) wanting to have activity with him. Should I just forget him and turn 100 % straight, or should I...do something? I get a boner when thinking about having sex with him.

All help is appreciated.

[RowanVer.3.0]

Don't ask him.. When a gay guy asks a homophobic out, it can only end badly :(

If I was asked out by a gay guy, I probably wouldn't make a big deal about it.. But I have to admit, I'd be a little weirded out.

[Maverick]

You know already he's straight and has a girlfriend. You don't have a chance. The odds are against you. Move on and find someone that is actually compatible with you. If you know already he's homophobic why would you want to put him in an uncomfortable position? There's no reason to turn 100% straight. Be who you are and find someone who will accept you for it.

[The Resurrected One]

OK, I will.

[Kamloops.man]

I know there have been gazillion threads on this topic, but I believe mine might be different:

I am 14-years-old, and I have the hots for a 17-year-old Mexican guy in my Graphics class. His name is Adrian (not gonna give the last name), and he is very straight (he even admits being a homophobe). I find him sexy and hot, and I would like to date him. But I'm too scared, and asking him something like this might turn out bad. So, I need some advice. He already has a girlfriend, and I don't really want to ruin their relationship by Bisexual Little Johnny K (me) wanting to have activity with him. Should I just forget him and turn 100 % straight, or should I...do something? I get a boner when thinking about having sex with him.

All help is appreciated.


got to a pool with this guy... When you're changing just look "down there" but not in an obvious way.. Just get to know him! AND DON'T ASK HIM OUT! THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA.. ASKING A HOMOPHOBE OUT WOULD TURN OUT HORRIBLE.

[Φρανκομβριτ]

dont ask him. If hes straight, hes straight.

[Ryan_J]

I would strongly recommend against making any advances on him. Whatever his sexuality, he chooses to put forth a straight image through homophbic comments/actions and having a girlfriend. The odds are quite likely that he's not into guys, and even if he is...that's likely a part of himself that he needs to become more comfortable with.

As for you, you like him...you like guys, why would you punish and deny yourself happiness by pretending to be something you're not?!

I'm gay and I'm proud of it! Everyone in my school who knows me, knows that I am... I'm not afraid of what people think, say or do. I'm fierce, I'm strong and I'm ME!

So, if you're gay, curious, questioning, or whatever...don't let your fears hold you back from being whatever you want to be!!!

[The Resurrected One]

yeah, I'm bi. But hey, I found someone else (a guy). He doesn't like me sexually, but we're still good friends. Yeah, he knows I like him. His name is Ian.

[Ryan_J]

HAWT...well im going to bed (again), so good luck with Ian!!!

[grimlip]

Just don't do it... he's a homophobe....