Is he crazy...

[Trickster]

OK so me and this guy met and we talked. So i worked up the courage to ask him out and he said yes. Now we finally schedule something for today and me being all excited dress so im not slutty but not conservative but flirty and fun. So we meet up and we decide to just walk around since we broke but after a little bit it gets weird.
1.) We go to the public library first and he kinda just plays on the computer for awhile and I email him by my phone so we can talk but yea....
2.) We walk ALL the way across the city for no reason just to turn back
3.) He does very weird things as threatening people under his breath, and saying odd things.
4.) He said "I love you" before we even met for the date.
5.) He has a hearing aid and he said his dad works in the secret service so he has connections to the service and government and president.
6.) to end the date, he went to go see a movie...alone cuz we couldnt afford me.(He got a free ticket from his mom so yea.)

Now i see ALOT of red flags here, but I kinda hope he was just nervous and did these things cuz it was the first date, but I dont wanna be set up for disappointment. He acts normal around adults like his mom and other people, but when it just me and him he like is unleashed.
Should I give him another chance? and what should I do?
P.S Im kinda also wanna give him another chance cuz he is SOOO cute.

[Dimitri]

Personally i have no idea if he is crazy but I think he is some kind of crazy.

[anonymous53]

6.) to end the date, he went to go see a movie...alone cuz we couldnt afford me.(He got a free ticket from his mom so yea.)


P.S Im kinda also wanna give him another chance cuz he is SOOO cute.


For one. He sounds like the kind of guy that's gonna get on someone's nerves real quick. Dropping the L bomb before the first date is a big no no. :P


As for the part I'm quoting.... Just....WTF. He goes to see a movie, without you? I'm gonna say, that's not very gentleman like. Then again most people assume Chivalry is dead.


The next part, you like him because he is cute? Is that the only reason you like him?

[emt.Cam]

I would have to agree with Rob. There is no such thing as "normal" in society: everyone is different. What you have described to us doesn't appear to be anything that interests you besides him being cute.

He threatens people under his breath: it seems like he may have some sort of personality disorder, just with how he acts around you and then around adults. I don't understand why he would tell you that his dad works for the USSS and has "connections" other than to "scare" you; futhermore, I don't get what it has to do with a hearing aid: he doesn't have any sort of connection to the Secret Service himself.

Liking someone should be classified as more than just thinking someone is cute. For anything to progress out of thinking someone is cute, needs to be on a level of compatability. Liking someone because they are cute isn't, "liking them"; it's simply thinking they are cute. Liking someone would be knowing them beyond a strangers perspective.

I recommend you let this one go. I'm sure there are plenty of other cute guys that may be better suited for your liking where you won't get red flags. Go with your gut on this one hun. Deep down, I believe you want to cut this one loose, simply because someone is cute, doesn't mean they are compatible with you; however, you never know until you initiate an encounter with them. You've taken that first step and received more than just one red flag, in your book. I'm sure you'll make the best decision for yourself, good luck hun.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Good Luck on this endeavor, to me it appears that you have superficial lust for him because he is cute. Personally, I think that only you can really determine if he is right for you and you probably realize it deep down.
Dropping the L work before is like WOW...and as for the the threatening and the secret service stuff?? WTF...
Being nervous is one thing, this guy has some other issues that are nerves..
There are plenty of cute guys out there....

[Trickster]

Thanks your right. I do think I was kinda holding out longer than I should because he was attractive but too many red flags, and I shouldnt feel nervous for all the wrong reasons around him and I think Ill let him down easy and just continue on with life

[DerBear]

For one. He sounds like the kind of guy that's gonna get on someone's nerves real quick. Dropping the L bomb before the first date is a big no no. :P


As for the part I'm quoting.... Just....WTF. He goes to see a movie, without you? I'm gonna say, that's not very gentleman like. Then again most people assume Chivalry is dead.


The next part, you like him because he is cute? Is that the only reason you like him?

to be honset when i read all the posts this is the best one it sums up what i was going to say:)

also i think when you are broke thats all you can do is walk lol <--- yes that is true

[Ambrosia]

My boyfriend and I walk all around town, that's all we ever do, but the fact is...

The guy sounds like he might have a screw loose!

[Spook]

He seems a little bit off the edge there...with talking to himself and stuff... 0.0

As for the movie, that was very un-gentleman-like. < Great word, right?

He doesn't sound like a very great guy, and it seems as if you only like him for his looks.

Sound odd to me, but in the end you will always end up doing what you want to do. :D

[Grayeyes]

In my opinion, I think you should give him one last chance.
Maybe he was really nervous and frazzled....
Talk to him about those incidents. Ask him if he feels uncomfortable or something.

BUT, on your next date, if he goes to watch a movie without you again, I say, leave him.
There are many other guys out there that are both good-looking and not as odd...