Erm...Have your friends ever...

[SillyBoi95]

Hi, This is my first ever post yay! I have read these forums for a while but never bothered t make a post until now :)

Anyway, I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how I can talk to my male friend about something which happened. I was sleeping round at his house oe night and at about 3am he climbed out of bed and came over to me. Then he (i won't go into detail) started to "touch"me. I pretended to be asleep and didnt stop him and he went further and further. Eventually he erm... put his finger..."where the sun don't shine". Then he went back to bed and we never mentioned it. He never knew i was awake.

Sorry if this isnt allowed but i really want some advice on this. He was 13 and I was 14.

Has anyone else experiences something like this? Should i confront him? I didn't hate it...

[HOLEinyoursoul]

Maybe you should just be like, "Hey remember that time when [insert details here]. I was awake and I really didn't mind it. Would you want to do something?" Or idk something along those lines. Seeing that he probably njoyed doing it, he probably won't refuse.

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

Maybe you should just be like, "Hey remember that time when [insert details here]. I was awake and I really didn't mind it. Would you want to do something?" Or idk something along those lines. Seeing that he probably njoyed doing it, he probably won't refuse.

ya if you liked it maybe you could bring it up as a joke. and you 2 could laugh about it

[Infidelitas]

This thread is more suited to the Abuse section. I will move it there.

[Drew7]

never had that happen. seems kinda late to confront him. if it happens again and you want to talk about it, just wake up and say may i help you? Or I don't like it or I liked it, but why are you don't that when I'm sleeping?

[Tomtom]

Just be nice about it and tell him that if he was curious he just needed to ask. Before I was gay my friends and I used to experiment and play with eac other all the time its not that big of a deal just kinda bring it up as a joke and bring it up again at that next sleepover

[Love.Hate]

Just ask him about it, be completely open and honest.

[Spreadingwings]

I'd confront him.

[iLoveCookies]

my question is, why were you allowed to sleep at a guy's house if you're a girl..? Anyways.. no judging :)

i'd confront him and be like, if you liked it, We should do it again, but if you didn't, tell him he can't touch you like that.

[SillyBoi95]

I'm a guy by the way :L

[RoseyCadaver]

Well,I would kinda drift away from him ,and I've had something like this,but not anything like this*sun don't shine type thing*.If you feel the need to confront him I would.If he does it again tell him he better stay away from you.Unless you like it,but you don't sound like you do so yeah.

[Fishes]

i would talk to him about it. then u guys could experiment a little

[davisbr2]

isnt that rape