I hate it there.

[georgiamay]

I actually hate it when I go to my mum's. I love my mum so much, and that's where the problem is. I hate staying at her house.

I've been very angry at my mum for a long time now over things that aren't important here, and I always thought that was the reason I dread going over there. It turns out, I don't like my mum. I love my mum, but I don't like her, if that makes any sense? There's a lot about her personality that I really don't like, and if she was a friend from school or something, there's no way I'd put up with her.

I also hate my step dad. I can't be bothered to explain why, I've had a lot of rants about him in the send a message thread. He's just an all round twat, and having to spend time with him is like toture.

Anyway, I feel like I must be a really bad daughter to say those things about my mum. What sort of person says they only love their mum because they have to? It's natural to love your mum, and that's why I love her. I just really dislike so many things about her, and a lot of the time I have to avoid certain topics around her, it's like I have to walk on eggshells all the time.

Is it normal to seriously dislike someone, but love them at the same time? I don't like being around her, it's frustrating, and not just in the rebellious teenager way, I genuinly find her personality too extreme to deal with.

I feel really mean for saying it, but I've been thinking about it a lot recently. If I wasn't related to her, I don't think I'd put up with her.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

I completely understand. I love my mom dearly and I don't know what would happen if I lost her, but I really have a hard time being around her. She's very overeactive and blows up and gets offended real easily and sometimes I just can't stand her. It's normal, because we're meant to love our parents. Not just in a socially accetable way, but it's just something we're born with. But if you don't like them, you don't like them. They're just like any other person on the planet except they made you and raised you. You don't HAVE to like them. Hope this was helpful :)

[Triceratops]

It's natural to love your mum, and that's why I love her. I just really dislike so many things about her, and a lot of the time I have to avoid certain topics around her, it's like I have to walk on eggshells all the time.

Is it normal to seriously dislike someone, but love them at the same time? I don't like being around her, it's frustrating, and not just in the rebellious teenager way, I genuinly find her personality too extreme to deal with.

I feel really mean for saying it, but I've been thinking about it a lot recently. If I wasn't related to her, I don't think I'd put up with her.

I love my mom dearly and I don't know what would happen if I lost her, but I really have a hard time being around her. She's very overeactive and blows up and gets offended real easily and sometimes I just can't stand her. It's normal, because we're meant to love our parents. Not just in a socially accetable way, but it's just something we're born with. But if you don't like them, you don't like them. They're just like any other person on the planet except they made you and raised you. You don't HAVE to like them.

^ Both of you have identical thoughts to me when it comes to how I feel about my mum lol.

I don't think it's weird to dislike your parents at all. I have a tendency to be very off/on with my mum, but 99% of the time I can't stand her and want to lock her in her room and sew her mouth shut so that she's unable to speak. She's one of those people I can tolerate in small doses, because on some - emphasis on the word some - days I get on well with her. I try to avoid her when I can, despite the fact that we live in the same house.

[rukia_yua]

yea, i completely get it. i kind of hate my mom....and my dad....but i feel obligated to say that i love them. but i think that if you truly are miserable that there is nothing wrong with feeling and expressing how you truly feel
i know....im not the best help, but if i can hmu