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Rawrgasm
May 14th, 2011, 04:14 AM
So, i met some girl who catches my train ( I reaally like her ) ... i need to know how to do this,
She is best friends with another girl who i know well, who is keen for me(Wants to go out.)
The girl i like is my age, and we make good conversation, we live 5mins away from each other and potential for us to catch the same train every single day..
if i asked the girl i like out, would she decline because her best friend also likes me?
im sorta in the middle of it all, anyone have advice? or have been in this situation..
thanks in advance!
emt.Cam
May 14th, 2011, 12:51 PM
I recommend you stick to the girl that you like. We don't have the answer if the girl will say yes or no. I would recommend that you try going on a date with the girl that in your interest to see if you connect through a different level; as opposed to, only making small talk.
If the girl likes you, I'd assume she would like to go out to eat or something with you. This way, you can determine if another date is an option or not. Jealousy is part of human interaction and we strive for attention whether making it apparent or not; so, she may want to make her friend jealous that she got the opportunity to be with you.
If you like this girl, it's worth a shot to see if she would like to grab a bite to eat sometime. You're never going to know if you don't ask. The worst that can happen, is her declining your offer. Best of luck to you!
HOLEinyoursoul
May 14th, 2011, 12:58 PM
Yeah, if you're not interested in the girl you know well, then I don't think you should think about that. Go for her friend, the one you met on the train. As cam says, we can't really give you her answer, so just ask her out some time and maybe things will go well.
Rawrgasm
May 15th, 2011, 05:54 AM
Alright thanks guys, i think ill just hop on her train this week ' by accident ' and we can talk, and see how it goes from there...
notsure101
May 15th, 2011, 09:12 PM
She could decline because of her friend, that could go either way. Talk to her some more and ask if ya wanted to catch the train with ya and if you both have cells ask her for her number and if she gives it to you, your gettin somewhere. Then go from there, good luck bud.
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