am i gay?

[TheRev]

me and my friend were showering after gym and he started j/o and then i started and soon it led to oral no one was their it was just us 2 does this make me or him gay? (we both have gf's) thank you

[notsure101]

You could just be curious

[TheRev]

haha thanks :cool:

[NomSan]

Nah, you are just curious, or you might also be bi.

[Infidelitas]

:arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Lights]

Are you both sexually interested in your girlfriends? If so, then what you guys did was probably out of curiosity. Unless of course you guys do it more than that once which would suggest you weren't as 'straight' as you thought. If you guys plan to do something like that again (which is totally fine), then you could be bisexuals at the least. Curiosity won't tend to go much further than doing something once, or perhaps twice.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

Sexuality is not all blak and white and hardly ever falls in the categories of straight, gay, or bi. Sex is sex and people are people in my view. So you may be gay i don't know, but just go with what you think feels right physically and emotionally.

[Noooooooooo]

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or So you may be gay i don't know, but just go with what you think feels right physically and emotionally.

[smitty35]

I think that you are just curious.

[TheRev]

haha tahnks and yes we both love our GF's and would not leave em mostly bc we love em and they have a lot of friends on the football team and i dont feel like having my butt wiped LOL

[Nihilus]

You are most likely curious.

[quinn]

i thank yuor curious

[donkeymkong]

That depends, did you like the fact that it was a guy sucking you, or did you like sucking the guy, OOR, did you just like getting sucked in general? If it was the second one, you're just curious. If It's the first one, you are probably bi

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Curious, bi. It is what it is. If you both liked it and want to do it again, then no issues...just let things progress. Most likely it was a passing thing and you will both chalk it up to one of life's experiences. How do you feel now? Have you discussed it with him? Would you do it with him again if the opportunity arose? These can be confusing times for us and being able to talk about it helps (as you can see form this forum)... talk to him about it and see what happens next

[Cynical]

Your most likely just curious. Many people go through a stage like yours and you'll realize who you are fully soon. Doesn't matter much anyways because you are who you are :)

[restricted NA]

eh curious, hormones and other neurological chemicals just bouncing around :)

[nobodyimportant23]

Personally, I believe that unless you are emotionally attracted to males, you arent gay...in my book sexual experiences dont really mean anything

[Hairy14uk]

I would say that the act itself would seem as though you're gay, to someone that didn't understand the situation. Knowing how it happened though I'd say that you're just curious which is completely natural.

[Tristin.]

your curious, unless you have emotional attraction to boys, your straight :)

if your really stuck though, ask yourself if you could see yourself in a relationship with a boy, if its a no then it is highly unlikely your gay

[Spook]

It's probably just curiosity. Tons of teens do sexual things together when they are experimenting, exploring their sexuality. You never truly know your sexuality until you are sure you have certain feelings for a certain gender. You need to be sure- you can't make assumptions. When you did that with your friend- you were experimenting- playing doctor. Don't worry about it. :D

[burner10]

Just depends how much you enjoyed it

[Boy_15]

It's completely natural with what happened with you too. I think your both just curious and wanted to experiment a bit. Which Is perfectly normal