potential girlfriend stealer

[cyb3rw01f]

ok.....so, my girlfriend and i are very happy together, we recently broke up for no reason (misunderstanding, but thats besides the point) and we both cried for days, and now were back together <3....and theres this kid noah who is like obsessed with my girlfriend and he loves 2 piss me off.....hes been starting rumors to my friends (i watch porn, etc.) but he said he was kidding, and he still continues 2 piss me off by hanging around her so much and being with her when i not there,a dn calling me names like chody........what do you think i should do about it? i think im going to punch him in the nose....but i NEED advice

(and sorry for the long story and btw im 13)

thanks

[tpzy94]

ha be more loving when he is around

[cyb3rw01f]

i do

[anonymous53]

If you have that much of a problem with him, confront him.

[Sage]

No one can steal your girlfriend. She can only make the conscious decision to dump you. If you're worried about the relationship not lasting in the face of competition, you are the problem, not your friend. Women are not property that can be stolen.

[DerBear]

ok.....so, my girlfriend and i are very happy together, we recently broke up for no reason (misunderstanding, but thats besides the point) and we both cried for days, and now were back together <3....and theres this kid noah who is like obsessed with my girlfriend and he loves 2 piss me off.....hes been starting rumors to my friends (i watch porn, etc.) but he said he was kidding, and he still continues 2 piss me off by hanging around her so much and being with her when i not there,a dn calling me names like chody........what do you think i should do about it? i think im going to punch him in the nose....but i NEED advice

(and sorry for the long story and btw im 13)

thanks

well i think he wants to be with her maybe not 100% sure with the discription you gave me it sounds like he is a bully to you and just likes her very much

secondly puunching him in the face could seem like a bad idea because you never know how that will backfire on you as your gf may think u r a bit of a jerk

so well all you need 2 learn is how to deal with competition and that is simply to be their for her and love her

but at the end of the day you cannot force her to be with you its her choice same as it is your choice to go out with her you will have to lear that fact

No one can steal your girlfriend. She can only make the conscious decision to dump you. If you're worried about the relationship not lasting in the face of competition, you are the problem, not your friend. Women are not property that can be stolen.

and i agree with your comment as women are not property that you can steal

[cyb3rw01f]

well everyone sorta knows know im gonan fight him....and i didn't mean a girl is a possession btw

[DerBear]

does your girlfreind know why ou are going to fight him and does she know why

also why do you feel vilonce will solve things whats your proof/cause to fight

!) he calls you a few names

2) he hangs about with your girlfreind

dude unless he hurts her theirs no real cause to fight

[Rawrgasm]

show him whos boss. hit him.

[cyb3rw01f]

show him whos boss. hit him.

thanks....i agree

[Kaius]

Fighting won't solve anything. It'll just prove to her how immature you are and tbh that definitely won't make her stay. As Tim said, no one can steal your girlfriend. If she wants to be with them she will, thats all there is to it really. You've got to give her a reason to stay over a reason to leave and to me getting into fights and creating drama will not make her stay. Have you tried talking to your girlfriend about it and asking how she feels? Theres no point getting yourself worked up about it if you're totally ignoring her feelings about the entire thing. I know how it feels to be in that position i've been in it many times before but one thing i've learnt is if you're going to be jealous and possessive over her without bothering to sort the situation out yourself.. You're going to lose her. So as i said, talk to her about it and talk to the guy. But tbh at 13 that stuff is gonna happen.

[cyb3rw01f]

ok so i dnt relly want 2 fight him anymore......but if i back out now..everyones gonna call me chicken and a coward and rip on me for the rest of my life......pluyz my parents are starting 2 question

[Kaius]

That still isn't much of a reason to fight him. Going on the rest of your life is a bit extreme it will be forgotten about within a few weeks trust me, I've been through high school and something else will happen with someone else and it'll all be forgotten about. Would you rather lose your girlfriend by acting immature and giving into what other people expect of you or would you rather show her you've got what she wants and give her a reason to stay? What are your parents starting to question?

[DerBear]

ok so i dnt relly want 2 fight him anymore......but if i back out now..everyones gonna call me chicken and a coward and rip on me for the rest of my life......pluyz my parents are starting 2 question

dude you fight him and you get your ask kicked you will get the shit taken out of you more

and if u do not fight u r showing matureness