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some1
January 21st, 2007, 09:15 AM
I have a friend who i have know for seven years. she's my longest friend, but now she doesnt talk to me. I dont know what happened, she just doesnt talk to me and we dont hang out anymore. She doesnt even look at me at school. I don't kno wat i did, but i think it has to do with the fact that she hangs out with "cooler" people now. Ive met those people and im like "wtf, she only likes them because they have such fake attitudes and they pretend they think she's hot and they say things she always wishes guys would say to her".

I've known she for too long, so i kno.

i miss her. my classmates are always telling me wats been going on with her and as her best friend, i shouldve been the first to kno that some guy liked her. Im really annoyed and confused. I feel sad and lonely. why are all my friends either treating me like crap or just ditching me for better people? i think im going to start the whole depression thing all over again. im afraid im going to try and scratch my arms until they bleed again. Im all alone now in school, and i dont understand why.

Hyper
January 21st, 2007, 09:18 AM
First.. No person is better than the other.. Realize than and youl go a long way.. Also its the age of puberty ffs people are under mass psychosis they think some things are cool which in reality are realy pathetic/immature and amusing.. Talk to her or give her time and if she realy wont be your friend anymore because she got some fake friends who are more ''cool'' then you've realy lost nothing

some1
January 21st, 2007, 09:24 AM
thats tru, but ive known her a long time, its hard.

I cant be bothered to talk to her, cuz if she's gonna be like that, then whatever. but it hurts cuz we've been friends for so long.

Hyper
January 21st, 2007, 09:25 AM
I know the feeling but if she is your friend shel realize that shes hurt you and talk to you and leave those 'cool' ppl behind but she might need some help to realize that..

some1
January 21st, 2007, 09:31 AM
fat chance of that actually.

she actually talked to me for teh first time in months last week while we were having exams. She asked me what my exam was like and she just walked away, so i dont think she knows she hurt me.

I dont get her, she always complains people are not tru friends, and look at her.

Hyper
January 21st, 2007, 09:35 AM
Well if she is your friend the she is the one confused I suppose theres more to it than you know, if she is truely your friend and hangs out with those kids then she has some reasons but it takes more courage to be who you are rather then to blend in