Im not sure anymore....gay/bi? IDK.

[PAfarmerkid]

Ok, Im going to try and make this short. But Im going to do a more detailed post in my blog on here soon...But for 2 years Ive somewhat known I wasnt fully straight. I came to the conclusion I was bi because I had no feelings for guys. Well Almost 6 months ago I started getting feelings for a guy and I thought about it and figured out I have had feelings for a guy at school but just never really realised it. Thats when I figured I was bi, specailly since I like these 2 girls at school. I fugred, yeah, I can deal with being bi. Over the 6 months I have lost all my feelings for any girl (even the one girl Ive liked for years) and my feelings for the guy at school keep getting great:( I have nohting against gays but I dont want to be gay, it just makes things hard IMO :whoops:

[anonymous53]

It's just hormones. You appear to be bi.
The heart wants what the heart wants. Don't label yourself so early :)

[Ender]

Why worry about classifying yourself atm? You have alot of time to get things figured out. Just follow your feelings for now, you'll figure it out eventually.

[Mewp]

A lot of teenagers who are gay go through a stage of thinking of themselves as bi-sexual. I'm not sure if you're aware of the Kinsey Scale (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale), but a large amount of individuals are attracted to both sexes to varying degrees - I identify myself as gay for the sake of simplicity, simply because I'm much more attracted to men; but there's the odd girl out there who I find attractive.

What I've found is that older people are actually more comfortable around homosexuals as b-sexuality hits a bit close to home: they don't mind others doing their thing, but don't understand how people can be attracted to both sexes.

In the end, don't stress about. =3

[keidriantiger]

Why worry about classifying yourself atm? You have alot of time to get things figured out. Just follow your feelings for now, you'll figure it out eventually.



THIS is a fantastic response. We don't live your life, and if you don't know, we certainly don't. Don't worry, you'll figure it out!

[PAfarmerkid]

Thanks everyone....luckily I do have supportive friends that do know what is going on and they said it does not bother them, but that it can be awkward at times, but its been getting less awkward (thankfully). I do get very imbarrised about it though if it comes up while we are talking or something though, I have to get over that, lol.

[smitty35]

Well to me I think that you are bi. I dont really think teens should label themselfes unless they are 100% sure. I think that you should take you time to make a decision.