Just having a weak moment

[Andymoto377]

So this girl I like My best friend likes and is in a friends with benifits relationship with her. So Im not going for it because I know it would cause a lot of drama and what not. But tonight she had a fight with her family and I'm the guy she calls now she is asleep in my bed while I'm gonna sleep on the floor. I'm tired of being "the nice guy" IDK just a small rant.

[Rawrgasm]

shows that she runs to you if she needs someone, or some type of help... good sign i think :-)

[Eagle63]

Sounds almost suspiciously resembling of Spider-Man... but don't worry. If you're there for her and ask for nothing in return, it will pay off eventually. Most relationships don;t last long. Friendships last a lot longer.

[anonymous53]

Just ask her how she feels about you? I mean, FWB relationships are meant to NOT create drama. So your best friend should understand you actually like her and don't want to just get laid.

[Andymoto377]

Just ask her how she feels about you? I mean, FWB relationships are meant to NOT create drama. So your best friend should understand you actually like her and don't want to just get laid.

No he likes her but there are a lot of factors its a huge long story but a FWB is all he could get for now. He is hoping to somehow get into a realtionship with her because He is in love with her so. Its just one huge messed story of my life.

[anonymous53]

Well dude, to tell you the truth, you won't get what you want by waiting for it. Friends are more important to me though.

[notsure101]

Sometimes ya cant be the nice guy, I learned this the hard way, if she calls and she wants to stay over your house, its your call but if you wanna let her sleep in your bed, thats being courtly, but you can always be the one that says "Your on the floor this time" Then about the friend deal, you gotta try and make the move first FWB doesnt mean they like eachother it just means there using eachother.

[Andymoto377]

Well dude, to tell you the truth, you won't get what you want by waiting for it. Friends are more important to me though.
Yeah they are both my friends but I have know Alex sence we where little kids so if he really loves here she is his. As much as I feel that I am better for her and can give her what she wants they she need to figure that out and he needs to figure his shit out to lol

Sometimes ya cant be the nice guy, I learned this the hard way, if she calls and she wants to stay over your house, its your call but if you wanna let her sleep in your bed, thats being courtly, but you can always be the one that says "Your on the floor this time" Then about the friend deal, you gotta try and make the move first FWB doesnt mean they like eachother it just means there using eachother.

As much as this pisses me off that they are doing this fwb thing I understand it. because I know them very well after 3 years of trying to get her to go out with him and being turned down Alex dated this other girl and she messed him up badly and after years of her heart being broken she is starting to feel for Alex sooo now they "don't" wanna realtionship cause they don't want to be hurt or whatever they but they want someone to be with at the end of they night. And I helping them both get over that and be with eachother without telling them what they say to be or reveling my own feelings. like i said its a long story lol....