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Serendipity
May 10th, 2011, 07:52 PM
So I always considered myself a Lesbian because I didnt find any guys attractive but now im starting to have crushes on both girls and guys. I had a girlfriend before but now Im wanting a boyfriend How do I know if I like girls or guys more? Because my sexual feelings for both are equally the same :confused:
tpzy94
May 10th, 2011, 07:56 PM
then you are bi..just have a boyfriend and girlfriend and see what happens from there
SarahB123
May 11th, 2011, 11:22 AM
hmm, difficult one to say.. to be honest I have often wondered what it would be like doing stuff with a girl, but have never dared to find out.. I look at some girls like i do guys thinking they have nice bodies. so im thinking that i might have some bi curiousty in me but dont want to admit it to anyone!.... I know how ur feeling except u are a step ahead as u have already been with a girl.... wish i could help but Im as confused as you are.
anonymous53
May 11th, 2011, 11:24 AM
You're just a teenager with hormones. Go for it :) The heart wants what the heart wants, don't label yourself
keidriantiger
May 12th, 2011, 03:30 AM
You could be bi, you could be more attracted to the personality rather then physical attributes, I don't know. I don't know you that well.
It could also be hormones AKA cliched VT response #3
FullyAlive
May 12th, 2011, 05:24 AM
You might be Bi, you might be Straight, you might be gay. It doesn't matter, you're a teenager there's plenty of time to work that out, don't worry about labels, or where you fall on the spectrum of sexuality. Just have fun, take it one day at a time if you want a boyfriend and there's a guy you like go for it. It doesn't mean you might not one day turn out to be gay but if you don't know whats the harm in trying things out before you decide.
smitty35
May 12th, 2011, 04:15 PM
All signs point to you being bi. Go for what you want.
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