oral sex on girls

[Tyler97]

I'm new and hope this is in the right catagory. I've been dating a girl for about a month and last Saturday we were fooling around and she ended up sucking my cock and I loved it, after I cummed she said now it's my turn. She pulled her panties down and to be honest this is the first time I saw a naked girl close up and it wasn't what I expected. I didn't know that the vagina and anus were so close together, I'm new to giving oral and I told her that, I was licking the top near the clit because I though that's what girls liked, she kept instructing me to go lower and as I did I was almost licking her anus which kind grossed me out. I did it because she seemed to like it, but I'd rather lick the top and stay away from the bum. Is it normal for us to lick the girls bum when giving oral? I know I'd never expect her to lick my bum while sucking my cock. I love this girl and want to please her, I'm attracted to her and her pussy, I just don't want to lick her bum, what should I do?

[tpzy94]

youre fine if the girl likes it guess what you better like it or else that might be the last tyme but yeah your fine

[carlitosway]

naw. it aint a normal part of oral to lick her anus. but some people like their anus licked. its called tossing her salad (IDK y. seems gross to me. but w/e).
most girls just want u to concentrate on the clit.\

p.s. congrats on the bj

[Mewp]

Licking the anus is referred to as rimming (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rimming) and is something a lot of people enjoy, due to the concentration of nerve bundles down there.

However, when you normally talk about giving someone oral, rimming is not assumed.

If it's something you're uncomfortable with, just tell her. Openess and honesty between sexual is pretty essential to a healthy relationship.

[Tyler97]

I'm fairly new to sex and the female anatomy, I didn't realize the anus and vagina were so close together, performing oral sex on a girls is almost impossible not to lick at least part of the anus because there's only an inch (maybe less) between the vagina and anus. I have no problem licking her pussy, but with the anus so close it makes me feel sick. I will lick her again because I have to if she sucks my cock, how can I do it without getting grossed out?

[Mewp]

Well, from what I recall (haven't given a girl oral in about... 2 years), you should be fine if you slip the tongue tip inside the vagina and flicker it around a little, as opposed to merely licking across the surface; no risk of 'accidental contact' that way.

Again: don't be quoting me - I'm sure several of the girls here could give you much better advice about this.

[smitty35]

You dont have to. But if she wants you to then you may have to to keep her pleased. I wouldnt mind either one.

[Lil Ill]

....I will lick her again because I have to if she sucks my cock, how can I do it without getting grossed out?

Ok I've never given or gotten oral sex but neither one of you should feel like "you have to" it should be natural. Give it time and make sure you talk to her.

[Pancakes]

We did the same exact thing except she wanted me to lick her clit...... A LOT!

[Tyler97]

I've done it a couple of times since then and am getting used to it. I'm licking inside more and not the actual anus, also licking the clit at the top gets her going too, she also likes me to lick lower, but I stop at the bottom of her lips. I think oral sex is an aquired taste and I'm still learning, I still think it would be easier to suck a cock, but I'm not gay.

[ShatteredWings]

Woah, how the hell did this slip.

Asking for sexual techniques is strictly prohibited.

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