Mom said what???

[Spook]

Another embarassing question, but...my mom was giving me the "talk" about sex, masturbation, dating, that crap, and um...she said she didn't want me sticking "foreign items" inside myself, and that she would buy me things like a vibrator if I wanted them. Is this weird, or bad or something? :whoops:

[Love.Hate]

Well i would see it as a good thing, she wants you protected from any infections i guess.

Its good you can talk openly with your mom about this sort of thing :)

[Kiss]

Wow, erm, well like Fran said she's just looking out for you, must be embarrassing but be glad you have a mother like that, I think. I don't think it's bad, just take advantage of it. :)

[Female95]

yeah that sounds embarresing but dosent sound bad at all

[sophierocks]

theres nothing wrong with that, you should count yourself lucky that you have a mother that will buy that stuff for you. many girls dont get acess to that stuff until their 18

[starlit dreams]

its def not a bad thing..........totally embarrassing but not a bad thing.
i think id die if my mum offered to buy me a vibrator :eek:

[rachy]

I think it's good that your mom wants to take care of you.. I talk to my mom openly and yea it can be embarrassing sometimes but hey if shes offering to buy you stuff..hell yea lol just kidding haha but yea thats good shes talking to you!

[Harley Quinn]

Another embarassing question, but...my mom was giving me the "talk" about sex, masturbation, dating, that crap, and um...she said she didn't want me sticking "foreign items" inside myself, and that she would buy me things like a vibrator if I wanted them. Is this weird, or bad or something? :whoops:

Oh god, when i got that talk i ran away, scared. But no, it's not bad, nor is it weird. I think that you mum realises that by this age/when you get to the 'teenage' stage of life you want to experience some things. If you want your mum to buy you them, let her :P

[brennaluvv]

That's lucky. She really cares about you, I know that it's really embarrassing right now but you should learn how to open up to your mom and talk to her about things like this. She loves you a lot and you shouldn't be ashamed of anything. If you're excited about something (i.e. a first kiss, loss of virginity, new boyfriend, etc.) she will probably share in the excitement because it makes you happy. I think you should take your mom up on her offer, just remember that you have to wash the vibrator after every use. (:

[angelRangel]

my mom bought me toys :3

its definitely better plus like ive known girls that stuck like food.. in their vaginas.. which whatever if thats their thing thats fine. but like... u just gotta make sure to be careful that um.. that food isnt left out.

cause i knew a girl that used a hotdog, long story short.. she went to clean up and when she got back, the hotdog was gone and she found out her brother ate it.

SO its always better to just have a toy imo LOL!

[starlit dreams]

......she went to clean up and when she got back, the hotdog was gone and she found out her brother ate it.


HAHAHAHAHA omg i wonder if she ever told him where the hotdog had been? :D

[Spook]

Lolll

[dreamsofsomeday]

To tell you the truth, I wish my mom would do that for me.

[cheergurl]

my mom is really open like that and I love it. she bought me and my sis toys, shed rather have us playing at home then out w boys, lol. but ya it was waay awkward at first, lol! i'm glad your mom is cool like that!

[solosarah]

I would have been doe eyed, my mother is not at all cool about sex, or self pleasure!!!!
Your mom rocks

[jamie463]

my mom did the same thing and she bought some toys for me. it's better with a real toy.

[bustybeach]

That's cool

[Luverly]

I'd think you were a very lucky girl to have an understanding mom like that.

[girl555]

ur lucky ur mum will buy u that stuff

[Spook]

It just feels really embarassing and awkward talking to her about it, and I don't really know how to tell her I want one. :/ The convo kinda dropped, and now I am nervous to bring it up again. Any advice?

[Crocbait230]

Totally embarrassing. But!
The offer she gave you is amazing i wish my mom is like that
offering to buy u a vibe or dildo instead of having to sneak them into the house like i had to
:)

[AnnaxSanity]

It means she cares about you and doesn't want you to do something dangerous when she'd be happy to provide a safe and clean alternative (that's better than just a few fingers).

[Susanna]

Another embarassing question, but...my mom was giving me the "talk" about sex, masturbation, dating, that crap, and um...she said she didn't want me sticking "foreign items" inside myself, and that she would buy me things like a vibrator if I wanted them. Is this weird, or bad or something? :whoops:

No it´s not weird or bad! My mum did the same thing, she got me a vibrator of my own. I had found her vibrator and sometimes when I was home alone I used it.

[kelly820]

I had my friend's sister order me a vibrator on her credit card then I just gave her cash for it try that way if you know anyone with a credit card

[cutetay]

I had a vibrater that my friend bought for me, and my mom found it one day and asked me about it. We had a nice long talk and felt better afterwards not having to keep secrets. The next day she came home with a new vibrator and a dildo for me. So it was embarrising at first, but I think its fine. What happens between you and your mom is not something that everybody has to be the same with. I tried to do that and it made things worse. I think its great that you two have that kind of relationship.

[Alice]

My mom is the same way, we are really open about things like that. She bought me my first "toy" when I was 13.

[skiitelzz19]

not bad at all i wish my mom would buy me a vibrator if i say the word sex i will probably get in alot of trouble

[maddy14]

I wish my mom was that cool

[bobynrobyn]

your lucky ! i still had a younger sister at 10 , and i think back about some of the times my mom talked to me ...... she was like almost spelling the word sex to get it out . turned out she was more embarassed then i was by a long ways---she had to go to the doctor when she was 12, and get part of a carot removed,but she told me she was lucky , cuz the doctor never told her mom......he just kinda hid it in his hand ...she got a gut laugh out of me ..... my hairbrush worked great for quite a few yrs, then my cousin got me a vibrater......

bobynrobyn

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

That sounds totally,akward. But I wouldnt see it as bad. She wants to make sure ur safe,and if shes willing to get u self pleasuring objects then it shows how open she is with u.

[dontcare97]

I think it's strange because it's your mom saying it but she seems to know that alot of girls will masturbate and wants you to be safe. It might be awkward for you thou.

[endgame]

Yeah taht would be embarassing. I wish my mom would buy me a toy, then i wouldn't have to steal hers all the time!

[kentucky girl]

Totally not bad, maybe embarrassing but not weird. My mom told me the same thing, don't stick strange things in my body. She showed me her vibrator and asked if I wanted one. I said yes so she bought me one

[amylights]

Yea, my mum did the same thing, she also bought me a shaver and a vibrator... It was so embarrassing, but i use it sometimes, lol... She taught me how to shave my armpits and my pubes and it really did help alot cause when i shaved it myself, it was really really itchy

[Spook]

A few ppl here said they used their mom's vibrators. I can't picture my mom even owning one! But I guess I don't really see my mom that way cuz shes my mom...

[endgame]

A few ppl here said they used their mom's vibrators. I can't picture my mom even owning one! But I guess I don't really see my mom that way cuz shes my mom...

I didn't either, until I found her toys one day. totally shocked.