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judgeofsin
May 8th, 2011, 09:57 PM
(If this question breaks any rules or is in the wrong place, feel free to let me know) Well, for awhile now, I've wanted to have a FWB relationship with a few people. I'm not entirely sure on how I should go about it, and by that I mean I don't really know how to ask. I mean, I know for a fact that a few of my friends like me a lot. I'm just not sure how to bring it up. Is there anything I can do to maybe ease my way into having a relationship like this with them? I honestly care about them and would never use them. Thank you for reading this :D
Infidelitas
May 8th, 2011, 10:13 PM
Im moving this to Relationships and Dating.

P101-Questions for Both Boys and girls :arrow: Relationships and dating :)
Sage
May 8th, 2011, 10:30 PM
You're fourteen. I don't think you should be having casual sex with anyone, much less your friends.
Iam.
May 9th, 2011, 12:26 AM
Sage speaks the truth, jacdean
Bimmerhead
May 9th, 2011, 01:54 PM
I agree with all of the above comments. Sex often times creates a bond when your young to another person. Being 14 your just not ready to form commitments and be in love! Just slow ur row, go to school be a kid for a little longer. No shame in that!
judgeofsin
May 9th, 2011, 05:59 PM
I agree with all of the above comments. Sex often times creates a bond when your young to another person. Being 14 your just not ready to form commitments and be in love! Just slow ur row, go to school be a kid for a little longer. No shame in that!

Well, by sex, I didn't mean like penetration or anything. NO WAY am I ready for that yet :P I just meant like the other stuff. You know?
judgeofsin
May 9th, 2011, 06:32 PM
You're fourteen. I don't think you should be having casual sex with anyone, much less your friends.

Well, the reason I want this is because I want to have some other form of release. Not just by myself. I honestly care for and feel attracted to my friends. That's all. Is there harm in that?
Sage
May 9th, 2011, 06:52 PM
Is there harm in that?

Yes. Now go do your sex ed homework.
judgeofsin
May 9th, 2011, 08:20 PM
Yes. Now go do your sex ed homework.

Sorry. :/ It was just a thought I had.
Grayeyes
May 10th, 2011, 06:26 AM
Sorry. :/ It was just a thought I had.

I have a probable solution... If you really care for your friend (whoever that may be) and you don't wanna use them in any kind of way, why don't you just have a normal relationship with them? and see what happens along the way.
smilelizzy25
May 10th, 2011, 08:51 PM
Wrong place.
anonymous53
May 10th, 2011, 09:11 PM
FWB relationships at this age aren't a great idea. I'd say go into a real relationship if you insist on wanting to be intimate with these women.