View Full Version : She led me on -_-
xDLOL
May 8th, 2011, 02:10 PM
Well here's the story. There's this girl I've been talking to for a while, like 4 months. We held nothing back, we let eachother get into that barrier that only few get into, we trusted eachother. So, today she said she was in a really good mood. So I was like why? She said this guy she had a crush on likes her back, and she's all happy and shit. Like what the fuck? Seriously? God dammit this pissed me off...
She's sent me hearts and post's stuff like this on my facebook.
"since it wont let me chat u again... i will not be able to get on fb today so ur just going to have to text me if u want to talk to me 8) haha
p.s. im in a SUPER good mood after yesterday 8)" (We talked A LOT YESTERDAY)
And
"i dont know why, but it wont let me chat u 8'("
And "dear derek,
even though u can be SUPER WEIRD sometimes, you can also be super nice. just thought u should know 8) haha. im super bored if u havnt guessed 8)"
What the fuck? Am I misinterpreting signs? She's not dating him yet but it's just a matter of time.
Any advice?
xDLOL
May 8th, 2011, 04:17 PM
Bump
Scarface
May 8th, 2011, 04:39 PM
It sounds like she doesn't really want a "commitment" or a relationship of any kind at the moment. Hell maybe she's just testing the waters to see who chases her and wants her bad enough. I know I'm like that. I can be close with someone, but if they want that relationship, they have to really try and show that they do. Not like weirdly or like "obsessive", but just showing that you care and hinting or just full blown being honest with how they feel. This may or may not be the case, but it's most likely the fact that she might not be ready and is browsing to see what she really likes.
Just start talking with her more, if you really like this girl, then show her that you do. Relationships can be one of the strangest mind fucks ever. I hope I helped somewhat. Good luck dude, if you need someone to talk to I'm here. :cowboy:
xDLOL
May 8th, 2011, 05:46 PM
It sounds like she doesn't really want a "commitment" or a relationship of any kind at the moment. Hell maybe she's just testing the waters to see who chases her and wants her bad enough. I know I'm like that. I can be close with someone, but if they want that relationship, they have to really try and show that they do. Not like weirdly or like "obsessive", but just showing that you care and hinting or just full blown being honest with how they feel. This may or may not be the case, but it's most likely the fact that she might not be ready and is browsing to see what she really likes.
Just start talking with her more, if you really like this girl, then show her that you do. Relationships can be one of the strangest mind fucks ever. I hope I helped somewhat. Good luck dude, if you need someone to talk to I'm here. :cowboy:
I just told her she was an awesome friend and she said the same back and then some, so I have a chance I think.
Scarface
May 8th, 2011, 05:58 PM
Like I said. Show that you have some interest in her. Sometimes in life you have to go after the things we want. Relationships happens to be one of those circumstances. Though if she turns you down buddy, don't get down on yourself, relationships when you're younger are very hard, better yet, they're hard period. But there's always going to be chances, you just have to be willing to take them. Good luck man.
:cowboy:
xDLOL
May 8th, 2011, 08:45 PM
Like I said. Show that you have some interest in her. Sometimes in life you have to go after the things we want. Relationships happens to be one of those circumstances. Though if she turns you down buddy, don't get down on yourself, relationships when you're younger are very hard, better yet, they're hard period. But there's always going to be chances, you just have to be willing to take them. Good luck man.
:cowboy:
Had a friend ask, she said no. But she still continues to flirt and like EVERYTHING I do on facebook. Ughh. Women. Anyway, she said I'm just a good friend because I'm a year younger. I still think there's hope...
tpzy94
May 8th, 2011, 09:04 PM
dont feel bad we all get let on...trust me
smilelizzy25
May 9th, 2011, 02:18 AM
Show that you have some interest in her.
Bimmerhead
May 9th, 2011, 01:57 PM
Avoid the friend zone dude! If you like her show her! lol
xDLOL
May 9th, 2011, 02:40 PM
Avoid the friend zone dude! If you like her show her! lol
But I'm SUCH GOOD FRIENDS WITH HER that could ruin EVERYTHING. I'll let her tell me, I'm not fucking it up, she means so much...
*edit* I mean like hint it to me.
xDLOL
May 9th, 2011, 02:42 PM
BTW This is my first time getting led on like this.
xDLOL
May 10th, 2011, 10:12 PM
WOW. She said this in a comment on a picture of mine.
"LOOOVEE YOUUU! LOVE U! LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE YOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUU! Lol"
The hell is wrong with girls =/
DerBear
May 11th, 2011, 07:12 AM
WOW. She said this in a comment on a picture of mine.
"LOOOVEE YOUUU! LOVE U! LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE YOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUU! Lol"
The hell is wrong with girls =/
people say that between friends a lot and facebook flirting is very diffrent form the real thing
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