How do you come out?

[RoseyCadaver]

I myself have no preferred sexuality,but I am physically and emotionality attracted to both sexes(more or less with girls,but I'm more physical attracted to guys)but none the less I am dating a guy and don't no how to come out,with saying I have no preferred sex but I'm dating a guy.It's like bisexuality but people will think it's an excuse for me to being gay and blah blah and if me and the guy don't work out I might go back to girls......any ideas?PS I live in Arkansas....

[Advanced A]

Why do you have to "come out"?

Just see where it goes, If someone asks, then you can say your attracted to your current boyfriend/girlfriend or whoever your seeing/attracted to.

Im along the same lines as you i believe, but with physical attraction effecting me a bit more in some ways.

No one has to be anything, you dont need to be bi, straight or gay.. you can be whatever you wish. If someone asks, tell them how u feel about whoever you like.

[smilelizzy25]

yup,why?

[Mewp]

A few questions:

Do your folks know? If not, are they opposed towards same sex relationships on say, religious grounds?

Are you comfortable with your own sexuality? From the comment that you 'might go back to girls', I'm guessing that you're perhaps still figuring your stuff out.

I live in a fairly liberal country, where the vast majority of people are accepting/indifferent. Provided you're confident and at ease with yourself, most people are interested given the chance - incidences of homophobia and the like are highest among people who don't know any openly lesbian/gay/bi-sexual individuals, and have some pretty inaccurate preconcieved notions about them.

My general response (without knowing all the details of your situation) would be - don't flaunt it, but if some one asks you (in a nice manner, mind), tell them the truth confidently and unashamedly. If they have issues with it, that's their own freaking problem. ;)

[RoseyCadaver]

thanks :)! People ask me I tell I don't really have a sexuality,so they get the idea ;D