what does this make me (protecting)

[DerBear]

so basically my girlfriend was attacked by her previous boyfriend and i well i would not use the word save because by the time i got their he had all ready beatin her unconcious but i did stop him form hurting her any further i was 14 at the time and he was 15

so their was a trial and he got 16 months in a correctional facility he was sentanced to it in december but as he was kept inside before that it was really only a year cause they take time off for how long you have been inside for

so anyway i am just wondering i would do anything to protect her and i mean anything from him or anyone else who would wish her harm

and they guy who attacked her is allowed to be near her again and go to the same school as her but i am afraid if he talks to her or me and says anything to her i dont know wather i will be able to stop muself this time if a fight brakes out

so i wonder does this make me wrong if i am capable to do anything to protect the person i love?

p.s if anyone does want the full story i will tell them it i will post it up as i did explain that event in p101 section of the chatroom so i can easily acsess the log and edit it so you have all the details without the interuptions i got for folk who were reading it

Derri.

[The Madness.]

It just really means you care about her to where you want her safe. Don't get freaky those to where you're psychotic and think anyone may be trying to hurt her. And don't try and give off any signs that you're wanting to fight this guy or anything, then you're the instigator and really, that won't look good.

[DerBear]

beleive you me i am not sure i want to fight this guy again cause it would be a waste of everyones time and not worth it and no i am ot overboard where i think everyone is out to get her infact i havew not even had to do anything in terms of protecting her since that day i just wondered what it made me if i wanted to protect someone that i would do anything for

[Horse_girl]

I agree totally with what's already been said. Also, can she get a restraining order against the guy?

[ikhasgkfjh]

Derri Ive heard your story before. This is my advice to you is to obtain a restraining order for your girlfriend against him. It would be the best thing. This means he will not be able to attend the same academic institutions as her or be within a certain area of her location. After thats done if he ever tries to get near her contact your local police department. Just do not instigate fight retaliate. Violence won't solve anything.

May I say, she has got a keeper. Haha ;)
Also I wish you two the best of luck.
If you have any questions, concerns, or you need advice, feel free to contact me.