You cant make me "choose"

[Love.Hate]

Okay so i have recently come out as Bi to alot of people,
and my ex-boyfriend had a go at me tonight, telling me i should "choose one or the other" and to "stop being so greedy". I mean really? What an idiot.

Has anyone else had someone say something like this?

[Joshh97]

Just tell him if he doesn't stop being a jerk your through with him, he will be the one loosing out, your beautiful ^_^

[RelicHunter97]

hes a douche, dont worry about it

[tpzy94]

nah i mean hes your ex so why care right

[RoseyCadaver]

You sound like a very intelligent girl,it's his lost,and no I haven't had someone be like that because i'm afraid of coming out.

[Advanced A]

There are so many people out there like this.
As far as everyone knows, im straight, so iv never had anything like this, but iv heard so many people talking about it.

Everyone is different but sadly so many people are close minded, so while your idiot of an ex boyfriend and some others are telling you to chose, there are so many others out there that couldnt care less if your interested in girls, guys or both.

Id suggest to say to him, and other who tell you this kinda thing, to either accept it or shove off. Its your life not theirs.

[Lights]

Why does it matter what your ex-boyfriend thinks? He's your ex, not your present, so who cares? Clearly he doesn't understand sexuality if he actually said to you that you're being greedy. But many teens in today's society, especially boys, don't understand sexuality because they haven't really been educated on it. Schools don't really talk about sexuality very much, and if they do, it's in very minor detail that doesn't effectively educate students. To understand sexuality you have to know it first hand (meaning identifying as something other than heterosexual yourself) or you have to know someone else well who identifies as something other than heterosexual.

So I think you have two choices here.
1) You could sit down with him and try to explain the fine points of sexuality, like that it's not something you can choose.
2)You keep your distance from him, and if he persists in harassing you, talk to a teacher at school who can help you out.

Let me know if I can help you any further. :)

[Love.Hate]

Thankyou everyone for your replies, your all so lovely.
I guess he is never going to understand, and your right why should i care what people think? Im me.

Im just going to ignore him and keep my distance :)

[RelicHunter97]

Fran, that's the best way to look at things. And good for you to just ignore him.

[smitty35]

No, but its pretty obvious that he doesnt understand you.

[Fourth Dimension]

the thing is people just dont understand u at all i mean its like they cant comprehend how we emotionally feel and they cant unless they have been in our shoes we cant help it they we attracted to both its just how we feel