Trickster
May 7th, 2011, 04:37 PM
Ok first off, i will use different names just in case
Me and Antonio used to be intimate but it didnt last long because he told me he was still in love with his ex. So went thru the drama but now were friends
His ex, ill call him Jake. Is what i think kinda a pushover so I noticed these things that Antonio has done or does that is a Red Flag for any relationship
1.) Antonio cheated on Jake in less than...2 months of being together
2.) Antonio constantly hits on guys (half the guys he hits on are my friends on fb too and they tell me about it) but if Jake does it Antonio gets mad
3.) Antonio openly insults Jake ALOT and not playfully, but harshly
4.) Antonio moved in with Jake, but it seems like he is only doing that because he got kicked out of every place else or nobody will take him in, but Antonio is still a little disrespectful of him like not grateful.
5.) Antonio makes Jake feel guilty about even talking to another guy that Jake begs and pleads for Antonio to forgive him (He did it in front of me so thats how i know)
6.) Antonio said in front of Jake and me that once I get an Apartment in fall, he'd want to move in with me and not live with Jake.
For me it seems red flags, buzzers and huge neon signs yelling for Jake to dump him but I want to know if its just me or does anyone else feel the same.
I dont want to say anything cuz me being a third-party and also having past relations with Antonio makes it seem like ill be a homewreaker. or anything
P.S I dont want Antonio because as you can see...he seems like a horror as a boyfriend
Me and Antonio used to be intimate but it didnt last long because he told me he was still in love with his ex. So went thru the drama but now were friends
His ex, ill call him Jake. Is what i think kinda a pushover so I noticed these things that Antonio has done or does that is a Red Flag for any relationship
1.) Antonio cheated on Jake in less than...2 months of being together
2.) Antonio constantly hits on guys (half the guys he hits on are my friends on fb too and they tell me about it) but if Jake does it Antonio gets mad
3.) Antonio openly insults Jake ALOT and not playfully, but harshly
4.) Antonio moved in with Jake, but it seems like he is only doing that because he got kicked out of every place else or nobody will take him in, but Antonio is still a little disrespectful of him like not grateful.
5.) Antonio makes Jake feel guilty about even talking to another guy that Jake begs and pleads for Antonio to forgive him (He did it in front of me so thats how i know)
6.) Antonio said in front of Jake and me that once I get an Apartment in fall, he'd want to move in with me and not live with Jake.
For me it seems red flags, buzzers and huge neon signs yelling for Jake to dump him but I want to know if its just me or does anyone else feel the same.
I dont want to say anything cuz me being a third-party and also having past relations with Antonio makes it seem like ill be a homewreaker. or anything
P.S I dont want Antonio because as you can see...he seems like a horror as a boyfriend