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Roses_Are_Yellow
May 7th, 2011, 02:25 AM
Ever since I was little, Mother's Day was a day I disliked. For a few years, it was because my classmates kept asking my teachers (while i was there) what I would be doing when we made cards for our mothers, since I didn't have a mother. My teachers would constantly tell them that everyone had a mother, and I would have to constantly try to explain to them that I did have a mother, but she wasn't around. None of them understood my explanation, and would keep asking why I didn't have a mother. (This lasted until 3rd grade) For the last 2 years though, I've hated Mother's Day because it was a day where all my friends would talk about their plans on that day, what they got them, etc. Also, I start weeping on mother's day (which irritates me) then getting angry for weeping, because I felt like I hated my mother. A few months ago, I started to forgive her for everything she did to me, and I started to love her. Then a few weeks ago, I learned what my mother's plans were for me once I was a teenager, and now I'm back to despising her.

Which is why I plan on throwing sharp objects against my bed room wall on Mother's Day. Anyone else on here dislike Mother's Day?

Sorry...just ranting about hate feelings....

TheMatrix
May 8th, 2011, 01:32 AM
Hmmm...........

I'm sorry you feel this way.
I have a mom, so I can't "be in your shoes".

Try to put it out of your head. Don't think about it. Play some games(if you can). Listen to relaxing music. Do something you really enjoy, with yourself or an understanding friend who won't talk about mother's day. Try doing one of those things for a whole day, and hopefully you'll feel better.

Just remember: we'll always be here for you :hug:

Roses_Are_Yellow
May 8th, 2011, 02:02 AM
Thanks for the suggestions, unfortunately though I've only had one friend in my life who didn't have her mom, but I might hang around and play games.

Thankyou :) (gives hug back :) ) ( Sorry, im doing this through my cell phone, and I cant find the little characters)