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Shikuya13
May 6th, 2011, 10:03 AM
My friends ditched me. Parents don't understand a thing!!!! does someone know what to do?:what: :(:yawn:
Ambrosia
May 6th, 2011, 11:24 AM
Like, actually left you? Like, everyone is ignoring you and no longer speaking to you? Because if so, I've been there.
If this is the case you need to sit yourself down and think. How much longer do you have of school? Who else do you have to sit with and talk to? Make NEW friends because people who pull stunts like that are back-stabbing witches unworthy of someone like you.
If this isn't the case well...I dunno.
TheMatrix
May 8th, 2011, 01:27 AM
Like Lexi said, find some new friends!
Try "Coming out of your shell", as they call it, and be open.
Be nice to everyone, regardless of whether you know them or not.
See if you can hook up with some of your friends from long ago that you liked.
Or, you have VT ;)
Hope I helped :)
Advanced A
May 8th, 2011, 07:20 AM
I dont really think parents would ever understand.. at least mine wouldnt.
My parents, from what iv gathered, think my life and my sisters, is a re-enactment of theirs, and everything is the exact same as how they had it, give or take advances in technology.
But in terms of friends, it sucks that they have ditched :(
Im not too sure what happened, as u havnt explained, but as hard as it is, take this as a lesson.
Id see it as the old "dont put all ur eggs in one basket"
Personally i was lucky growing up, we never moved towns, so i kept roughly the same friends, but my group was beyond one group.
I always had a different lot of friends, ranging from the sporty dudes always playing on the field, right thru to the guys that played cards inside most days.
Everyone has their fights, and iv lost alot of friends thru my own and their stupidity.
There have been times when iv been backstabbed, Which sucks the most out of anything, a prank is one thing, but when they do it just to hurt you.. then its personal.
As everyone else has suggested, try to find new friends. But while doing that, try to work it out with your older friends if you can. And try to spread your friends around, get to know alot of people rather one closed clique.. (if thats the word).
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