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SuperTgirlTaylor
May 6th, 2011, 07:02 AM
I am transgender ( girl in, guy out or girl stuck in male body) and i like girls and i have a GF. Does this make me lesbian or straight?
Sosaku
May 6th, 2011, 10:05 AM
People will think you are straight, because physically you are male, and you are dating a female. However, if you are a girl stuck in a guy's body, like you said, and attraced to females. You could be a lesbian, or maybe Bi-sexual. However, that is up to you to decide.
smitty35
May 9th, 2011, 05:15 PM
I guess its up to you to decide. It took me a while to figure it all out. It is/was very confusing to me.
tpzy94
May 9th, 2011, 05:16 PM
its up to you...dont let society judge you
SuperTgirlTaylor
May 11th, 2011, 07:24 AM
thank you people just wanted to know what people thought about the topic
Syvelocin
May 12th, 2011, 07:14 PM
I suppose some would say you're lesbian, but I usually hear it said based on what gender you were born as. I have a friend who is FTM, and says she's lesbian. I would think about what you would like to be called, and say that about yourself, so others will as well. But yeah, typically, most base it on your physical gender.
Aspiringanonymous
May 12th, 2011, 07:51 PM
In the trans community we identify our sexuality based on the gender we identify as, because that's the gender that we truly are. It's our bodies that are in disparity with our essence, not the other way around.
ShatteredWings
May 13th, 2011, 04:34 PM
I have a friend who is FTM, and says she's lesbian.
erm?

Sexuality is identified by your own gender identity. I'd say lesbian or bi, depending if you ahve interst in guys or not.
SuperTgirlTaylor
May 15th, 2011, 08:03 PM
erm?

Sexuality is identified by your own gender identity. I'd say lesbian or bi, depending if you ahve interst in guys or not.

i dont be bisexual but id be ok with trying doing a guy


???

In the trans community we identify our sexuality based on the gender we identify as, because that's the gender that we truly are. It's our bodies that are in disparity with our essence, not the other way around.

so what r u sayin
Drew7
May 15th, 2011, 09:35 PM
never even heard of this, but if you're nice that's all that matter.

wait. What??? if ya like girls and ur a guy, no problem. i know what lesbiens are cuz we learned of them at school in health, but we didn't talk about this. I can't imagine what that feels like if you a girl somehow.
Aspiringanonymous
May 20th, 2011, 11:09 AM
so what r u sayin

If you identify as a guy and you like guys, you're gay.
If you identify as a girl and you like girls, you're a lesbian.

Bi is easy.

And 'physical body'/'what your ID gender marker says' has nothing to do with it.
SuperTgirlTaylor
May 20th, 2011, 05:12 PM
never even heard of this, but if you're nice that's all that matter.

wait. What??? if ya like girls and ur a guy, no problem. i know what lesbiens are cuz we learned of them at school in health, but we didn't talk about this. I can't imagine what that feels like if you a girl somehow.

it doesnt feel good cuz i constantly have to hide it and the hardest is hiding it from my family