This is really getting ridiculous

[Bkylblk]

Well I really don't know where to begin, but I guess I should start by saying that I have no idea whether I'm straight/bi/gay, and that is where the problem lies. The thing is that I've dated girls before and I keep having feelings for my ex-girlfriend and I get turned on when we hook up, but things just seem off. Before I ever did anything with guys I was always completely focused on girls but was a little curious. After I was able to experiment with a few friends I became really unsure of whether I was straight or not. I still enjoyed hooking up with girls, but with guys it just seemed right. So for the past month or so I was coming to terms with being gay and trying to take steps toward coming out, but when I ended up doing the deed with one of my best friends I got freaked out and decided that there was no way I was coming out any time soon. But all of my friends discovered what I did and they keep saying they know I'm gay and they are just waiting for me, and to add to all of this commotion I ended up hooking up with my ex girlfriend over spring break and it stirred up old feelings. I am on the verge of a mental breakdown. Do you have any idea what I should do? :what:

[charlie w]

First of all, though it is easier said then done is to calm down and think. Many people, like myself has experimented with the same sex and consider themselves straight and it did fell right. You being under pressure by your friends certainly isn't helping much but for the time being ignore their comments and don't react to them. You still have feelings for your girlfriend but got freaked out when you tried to have sex with a boy tells me that though you are curious, without more info I would label you as straight. it also depends how old you are, teenagers have their hormones all over the place so it is difficult to place ourselves into a category until we are 17/18.,

[Advanced A]

Charlie knows whats up.

You just need to calm down, and think about it.
Dont rush, theres no need for it. By freaking out with that guy, then its pointing towards straight. But then again getting with the guy in the first place is saying otherwise.

There is no real need to label yourself. Do whatever you think feels right, so long as your not playing around with others feelings.

When you think about it.. you can be whatever you want, If you come out as gay now, then say 5 years down the track if your not feeling the same, come back out as straight. Personally to me, its no big deal.

[carlitosway]

just do what feels rite.

[smilelizzy25]

ridiculous

[HOLEinyoursoul]

This is life dude. Things like this happen. I'm not telling you to suck it up. Not at all. You have a right to feel freaked out. I feel you might be what people classify as bisexual (the reason i say it like that is because i don't believe in sexual classifications like straight, gay, or bi) I feel a little weird in sitautions like that sometimes, you know. If I've been indulgent in one sex more so than the other, it feels just a little weird when you do it with the other one. It's something you gotta get used to :)