Messing up with friends.

[judgeofsin]

I have no clue why, maybe there's something wrong with me that makes this happen, but I always end up making my friends mad or annoyed with me. I never mean too, and they know that I never hurt anyone or annoy anyone on purpose. I just can't get away from this problem. I couldn't sleep last night because of it. Maybe I'm just not meant to have friends since I always make them mad. I just don't know anymore. Is there something wrong with me? :(

[peaceloverugby]

Justin, I think I need more information before I say there is something wrong with you (I bet there isn't). So I have two questions. First, do your friends stay friends with you, even after you make them angry or annoyed? And second, is there something you do that particularly annoys or angers them?

[Kaya]

Of course there's nothing wrong with you. Everyone deserves friends.

[slappy]

Bro, you're just like me. From how it sounds, you are just a serous person who doesn't take shit from anyone. Theres nothing wrong with you buddy, I'm the same way.

[Iam.]

I have a similar problem, except when people try to be my friend and they get to close i shove them away and cut all communication. it pisses them off. But there's nothing wrong with you.

[judgeofsin]

Justin, I think I need more information before I say there is something wrong with you (I bet there isn't). So I have two questions. First, do your friends stay friends with you, even after you make them angry or annoyed? And second, is there something you do that particularly annoys or angers them?

They stay friends with me, and I noticed that I say the wrong thing often. At least, It seems like it.

[judgeofsin]

Of course there's nothing wrong with you. Everyone deserves friends.

Well thank you. Although it just seems like I end up getting my friends to get angry with me somehow. :/

[Kaya]

Well thank you. Although it just seems like I end up getting my friends to get angry with me somehow. :/

Do you know why they get angry? Maybe it just feels like they're angry, but they're really not.

[judgeofsin]

Do you know why they get angry? Maybe it just feels like they're angry, but they're really not.

Actually, they show their anger and stop talking with me :(

[IDon'tLikeUsernames]

This used to happen to me a lot. Now, I monitor what I say and pay attention to how people react to what I say. Don't worry, you're not the only one :).

[Kaya]

This used to happen to me a lot. Now, I monitor what I say and pay attention to how people react to what I say. Don't worry, you're not the only one :).

That's a good idea. Just figure out what makes them angry...then don't say it.

[judgeofsin]

This used to happen to me a lot. Now, I monitor what I say and pay attention to how people react to what I say. Don't worry, you're not the only one :).

I'm not the only one? Really?

[IDon'tLikeUsernames]

I'm not the only one? Really?

No, I learned this recently. I used to think I was the only one as well ^.^

[judgeofsin]

No, I learned this recently. I used to think I was the only one as well ^.^

Well, that's good to hear :D

[judgeofsin]

That's a good idea. Just figure out what makes them angry...then don't say it.

That makes sense. I'll try that. :)

[IDon'tLikeUsernames]

Yeah, so just hang in there :)

[judgeofsin]

Yeah, so just hang in there :)

Thank you :D

[IDon'tLikeUsernames]

No problem :D.

[judgeofsin]

No problem :D.

I feel so much better now :)

[Blujay]

At this age it seems like people are set off for any random reason, so no, I very highly doubt there's anything wrong with you. =] In fact you seem very nice.
Some people are just flaky. And those're the ones usually not worth your time. But if you're having problems, confront them about it. I think asking them what's wrong and working openly to find a solution about it is much better than sneaking around trying to figure out what's going on in someone's head.

[IDon'tLikeUsernames]

I feel so much better now :)

Aw, glad I could help ^.^

[judgeofsin]

Aw, glad I could help ^.^

I'm glad you did help.