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BOSS
May 4th, 2011, 08:02 PM
I look at porn at least once to twice a month and sometimes 3 to 4 am I addicted to porn and what is a good way to stop the reason I want to stop is I'm christian and I know it's very sinful of me to do this please tell me a way to stop. PLEASE!!! :(

donkeymkong
May 4th, 2011, 08:06 PM
Basically, occupy yourself doing other things. Read a book, play video games, do homework, whatever, just get away from the computer. If it's really a problem, turn off your computer and put it in a not easily accessible place. When you do this, it wont be as easy to look at porn, and you'll hopefully think about it before you do it

Fruit_Tart.
May 4th, 2011, 08:06 PM
Ahem.
Once to twice a month...
Hunny... That's not really considered addictive. Heh. *looks at browser history*
And if you think it's sinful, then why does everyone do it? I'm sure there are plenty of other people your age and older that look at porn, probably wayyy more than you do. I think it's normal to look at it every once and awhile and your habit hasn't gotten bad as others. :P
Christians, I'm sure, look at porn. Heh. "Perfect" Christians say they don't look at porn, but probably do it anyways.
Eh. You're young and full of hormones and you need to relieve yourself once and a while, which is completely understandable. ^_^

Thomas17
May 4th, 2011, 08:18 PM
i don't think once or twice a month is considered addicted.
i watch porn most of the time when i masturbate.

probably at least 5 times a week.
but i tried giving up watching porn for awhile, and i went about 3 weeks.
playing video games, finding interesting hobbies and etc will help.

donkeymkong
May 4th, 2011, 08:18 PM
Ahem.
Once to twice a month...
Hunny... That's not really considered addictive. Heh. *looks at browser history*
And if you think it's sinful, then why does everyone do it? I'm sure there are plenty of other people your age and older that look at porn, probably wayyy more than you do. I think it's normal to look at it every once and awhile and your habit hasn't gotten bad as others. :P
Christians, I'm sure, look at porn. Heh. "Perfect" Christians say they don't look at porn, but probably do it anyways.
Eh. You're young and full of hormones and you need to relieve yourself once and a while, which is completely understandable. ^_^

Not everyone looks at porn, and just because "everyone" does it does not make it right. If you believe what the Bible says (which I do with all my heart) than looking at pornography is a sin. I have struggled with this in the past, and I do my absolute best to not do it, but everyone does make mistakes. I'm so glad that God is so forgiving of our sins

mbishop94479
May 4th, 2011, 08:23 PM
You aren't addicted if it's a max of 4 times a month. It's normal for teen guys to watch porn. The sinfulness of porn is VERY subjective. If you feel it's a true sin, then keep yourself occupied, like donkeymkong said. But you are not addicted to porn. I'm not saying you should or it's not a sin, just answering your question. If you like watching porn, then you shouldn't ignore what your mind's saying. Like Ima.Monster said, you're young and full of hormones. It's natural.

Kevwee
May 4th, 2011, 08:31 PM
It may be hard at first since you think you are addicted to it, but you can slowly start to watch less and less porn as the days go on and then you will eventually stop watching it :)

amigo93
May 4th, 2011, 09:25 PM
Not everyone looks at porn, and just because "everyone" does it does not make it right. If you believe what the Bible says (which I do with all my heart) than looking at pornography is a sin. I have struggled with this in the past, and I do my absolute best to not do it, but everyone does make mistakes. I'm so glad that God is so forgiving of our sins

That's so right! Regardless of if other Christians do it, a true Christian know its a sin. The Bible condemns it. Point blank.

Infidelitas
May 4th, 2011, 10:32 PM
There is absoloutly nothing wrong with looking at porn. Once or twice a month isnt that much when you think of it. Its the same principal as if you drink alcohol once or twice a month, your not necicarilly addicted to the alcohol. But like what the others have said. Its fine

Fruit_Tart.
May 4th, 2011, 10:48 PM
Not everyone looks at porn, and just because "everyone" does it does not make it right. If you believe what the Bible says (which I do with all my heart) than looking at pornography is a sin. I have struggled with this in the past, and I do my absolute best to not do it, but everyone does make mistakes. I'm so glad that God is so forgiving of our sins
Not really what I was trying to convey.
I was only saying that because it would be very hypocritical for someone else to say that it's wrong and disgusting if they do it as well. Sorry for going over the line by saying that.

User Deleted
May 4th, 2011, 11:48 PM
I would say "agreed" but that would be blunt, pointless, and boring. So instead I'll say this. Porn is addictive, thats the bottom line. Lots of people do watch porn and a few times a month is seldom for average amounts of time put into porn. Addiction varies to certain degrees, you may be addicted, but on most standards its not bad. Now to the solution. First of all, addictions are never easy to break. The one and only way I have found to be an easy escape route from an addiction is transferring it. Basically, find something you enjoy other than what you're trying to stop. Slowly invest your time in that activity more often and you should find yourself away from the previous addiction, now on whatever activity you chose. I, for the record, have used this technique twice. When I tried to slow out, the result was ultimately, the addiction stuck.

SWMG
May 5th, 2011, 12:15 AM
Well maybe you are not addicted yet but if you want to stop try occupying yourself read a good book, play something or with your siblings, watch a good tv show or help your parents with things they might need maybe

slappy
May 5th, 2011, 01:01 AM
Haha
Dude, I look at porn like 5 times a day
U are all good on that

RhedKing022
May 5th, 2011, 03:05 AM
Try doing other stuff like going outside. I was once addicted to porn, but since my girlfriend taught me how to read books, I have avoided porn.

AussieInfomonger
May 5th, 2011, 04:06 AM
I don't believe you're addicted at all. I myself know for a fact it's incredibly difficult to not watch porn and being a christian does not help its that whole forbidden thing that gets to ya as well at times it seems. At the moment is probably a easier time to quit altogether although your curious about the matter. Once your older thats when the problems occur cause the hormones don't die down quickly they seem to build up. And then your friends around you talk about similar subjects and say they do to. So you feel you fit in but you know it's not right. For now remember God loves you and you are forgiven you are human and not perfect. Sinning is human nature no matter how good we think we are we just aren't. Thats the reason Jesus died. So we are forgiven you will make a lot more mistakes to come.

FainAgain
May 5th, 2011, 05:29 PM
I have that same problem.... I watch a little more often, but I want to stop and also I don't.... But i hate trashy porn. Anyway do ur best man but it's understandable and good luck to you. I find that just masturbating when you have to urge to turn on the porno is most effective. Gets it all out out of your system at once.

Zazanama
May 5th, 2011, 09:59 PM
Im christian and i would say 1 to 2 times a month would be mildly addicted and it is a sin but when you're a teenager you have the full load of hormones to get used to and sometimes you just need to release the stress, and i have a problem with hentai as well as porn so you're not the only one! I have gotten to where i look at it about the amount you do and maybe reading the Bible will help you as it did me when i was fully addicted but if you cant stop watching porn, atleast just completely switch to hentai which isnt as bad because you are just looking at an animation.

PM me anytime and I hope this helped,
Josh

micim987
May 5th, 2011, 10:07 PM
I use porn to help me masterbate when i can't but idk if its sinful even knowing im a christan we havent been to church in a LONGtime but if you think its sinful then stop watching it set up parental filters do something to keep you from watching it like watch this little guy---->:blowup:

MariettaNate1995
May 6th, 2011, 01:23 PM
Once or twice a month...no you're not addicted. If you look at it multiple times a day and when you're just hanging out all you can do is think about looking at it, then you're addicted.

VerizoniPhone
May 6th, 2011, 02:33 PM
Ahem.
Once to twice a month...
Hunny... That's not really considered addictive. Heh. *looks at browser history*
And if you think it's sinful, then why does everyone do it? I'm sure there are plenty of other people your age and older that look at porn, probably wayyy more than you do. I think it's normal to look at it every once and awhile and your habit hasn't gotten bad as others. :P
Christians, I'm sure, look at porn. Heh. "Perfect" Christians say they don't look at porn, but probably do it anyways.
Eh. You're young and full of hormones and you need to relieve yourself once and a while, which is completely understandable. ^_^

Looks at browser history!!! lol hahahaha and yea he's rite Once to twice a month is not a lot

SomeGuyFromHere
May 6th, 2011, 04:33 PM
Not everyone looks at porn, and just because "everyone" does it does not make it right. If you believe what the Bible says (which I do with all my heart) than looking at pornography is a sin. I have struggled with this in the past, and I do my absolute best to not do it, but everyone does make mistakes. I'm so glad that God is so forgiving of our sins

Exactly :)

big joey
May 6th, 2011, 05:14 PM
it is bad if u stop u will get a lot mor wet dreams and the helthey amour for a guy is once a dayif your friends or ur girl don't under stand just tell them if u don't "spank the monkey" u will b Horney all the time

Joshua 93
May 6th, 2011, 07:57 PM
Watching porn is all good.
As long as you don't feel you need to be on there all the time or every night your sweet :)

Psychintraining
May 7th, 2011, 02:32 PM
haaha your not addicted. at all.

xDLOL
May 7th, 2011, 06:16 PM
Im christian and i would say 1 to 2 times a month would be mildly addicted and it is a sin but when you're a teenager you have the full load of hormones to get used to and sometimes you just need to release the stress, and i have a problem with hentai as well as porn so you're not the only one! I have gotten to where i look at it about the amount you do and maybe reading the Bible will help you as it did me when i was fully addicted but if you cant stop watching porn, atleast just completely switch to hentai which isnt as bad because you are just looking at an animation.

PM me anytime and I hope this helped,
Josh

Oh god. Don't bring that Christian BS in here...it's normal to look at porn, daily.

tpzy94
May 7th, 2011, 07:01 PM
um no its not like you jack off to porn then 2 minutes your looking at porn again...youre good

Silentkink
May 7th, 2011, 09:19 PM
I do not think you are addicted to porn in anyway at all. I was like yourself I was addicted to porn at one time, but I accepted that it was very wrong and not what God would want me to do. Since I started going to church again, and just being a better christian all together, I very rarely look at it anymore, and I think I am at the point where I can give it up all together. So all I can tell you is try to get more involved with religion like I did or like many others have said read a book, go outside, go on skype, or play video games. Anyway I hope you can get through this like I did, best of luck to you.

puberty-curious
May 11th, 2011, 04:41 PM
you arent.

Fish813
May 11th, 2011, 10:07 PM
Just know other people do it and its normal.

smitty35
May 11th, 2011, 10:09 PM
No, you are not addicted. 1-4 times a month is nothing compared to some other guys. You are not addicted to something if you just do it every so often. Being addicted to somthing is like not being able to live without it.

keidriantiger
May 12th, 2011, 03:50 AM
No you aren't.

atomsmasher
May 12th, 2011, 03:48 PM
Haha twice a month. And I thought every day was a bit much. I must be hornier than I thought lol.

PAfarmerkid
May 12th, 2011, 04:06 PM
Not addicted to all..I watch porn around 5 times a week, only when I jack off though. No big deal IMO, my other friends watch it too.

Limelight788
May 12th, 2011, 05:33 PM
It's true that porn is a sin and something that we (Myself included) struggle with to quit, but viewing it once or twice a month is hardly addicting. It's like saying you drink red wine once or twice a month as an adult (Which can actually be good for you) is addicting, it's a hyperbole.

rayraywa
April 6th, 2012, 12:05 AM
Play Sports, anything to keep your mind of the porn.

Texas warrior
April 20th, 2012, 01:02 PM
I look at porn weekly, and I could go months with out being it desprit need of seeing a boob. If you start crying and getting depressed because you have not seen a boob in five minutes, then you are a addict. Tell then your fine, God is forgiving.

CrazyFish
April 20th, 2012, 01:12 PM
As mentioned, many times, a few times a month isn't an addiction. If you're a Christian, then that's your choice and if your religion thinks it's a sin, and you don't want to sin, then you shouldn't watch it at all.

Some versions of Christianity believe masturbating is a sin too, so if yours does, you shouldn't be doing that if you don't want to piss off your God.

However masturbation is generally accepted to be a good thing as it allows people to explore their sexuality and their body safely and allows them to relieve stress, so I wouldn't recommend it! But then again, I wouldn't recommend religion for any sane person!

To stop looking at it, take your mind off it and do other things such as sports or a hobby, which can be used to stop masturbating too, or just masturbate without porn. If you feel you've already got out of hand, install an internet blocker to block you from looking at the stuff.

Good luck!

organickush
April 20th, 2012, 01:20 PM
i look at it like 4 times a day, ur not addicted

Greg1994
April 20th, 2012, 01:26 PM
haha you're not addicted, some people including myself, might watch it like 3-4 times a week

FullyAlive
April 20th, 2012, 02:30 PM
Please don't bump old threads :locked: