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Melchi0r
January 18th, 2007, 03:19 PM
(not real names)

On Sunday there's a good possibility that I'm going to hang out with my friend Tom. He will be with my friend Susie. I have already come out to Susie over IM because I was planning on coming out to both of them, but I wanted Susie to tell me if Tom would take it ok. She said Tom would take it fine. So now I have to tell him. But I've never had to tell someone in person.
Advice? How should I break it to him that I am bisexual?

Activate
January 18th, 2007, 07:54 PM
Just wait till the right topic comes up. Like go "ooo that guy is damn hot" then if he goes "are you gay?" you go "nah, i swing both ways" or something like that.

Melchi0r
January 18th, 2007, 09:29 PM
Perhaps that could work.
Any other ways in which I kind of walk him into me telling him that I'm bi?

Mannequin
January 18th, 2007, 10:06 PM
Don't do it.
Do you realise the number of bisexual teens that turn out straight in adulthood?
Over 50% have had a gay confrontation or have really wanted to. YETTTT, 1% of the world is gay.

Activate
January 19th, 2007, 12:14 AM
Don't do it.
Do you realise the number of bisexual teens that turn out straight in adulthood?
Over 50% have had a gay confrontation or have really wanted to. YETTTT, 1% of the world is gay.

10% :D

Mannequin
January 19th, 2007, 06:09 PM
10% :D

No, currently approximately 1% of the world is homosexual. This does not include bisexuals. Regaurdless, it is not 10%--It is much less.

Melchi0r
January 19th, 2007, 09:07 PM
Mannequin, you're just annoying. Please go away if you don't have anything to contribute to why I created this thread, and telling me that I'm not really bisexual doesn't count as contribution. I don't want to have an argument but sadly you already started one.

Maverick
January 19th, 2007, 09:26 PM
Austin was just giving his opinion. You can choose to accept it or not.
I would do what Brody said.

Melchi0r
January 19th, 2007, 09:28 PM
Still I would like more ideas...