sexual exaust/over masturbation--desprate help..

[zipzapzop]

alright...this will be my first post
ok i'm 15 and ive been masturbating almost daily right? even tho i feel like it i would masturbate...because i feel bored. but ive just stop recently because i'm starting to have negative effect, and its really true...i've been urinating a lot and i dont even drink that often, like i would go to the washroom every period at school, and sometimes the teacher wont let me out and my balls will start to hurt or my stomach. My sexual drive is really low (dont get horny), back then i would get really realy horny wether if its a hot chick or an ugly chick, now if i look at a chick i dont feel anything but my penis would just errect. My hair starting to thin and fall off, and its really stressing me out because everytime it falls, i keep thinking about it and stress me a lot more. err what else...oh ya back then i was stronger and energetic i carry weights and go martial arts, but since i started masturbating i'm always soo weak, low energied, fatigue, and tired. another thing, im always depress, even tho there is nothing to be sad at, i always feel sad, if theres something happend bad to me, i would think a lot about it and think really really deep, and i cant seem to stop it even tho how much i told my self to STOP STOP STOP!! its driving me crazy!! and its messing my head!! well anyways...i stop doing masturbation but i would have frigin wet dreams... and i cant seem to stop it too and my semen is really really thin, back then my semen was a lot thicker. and when i have wet dreams, whenever i wake up, my penis and balls would hurt like CRAZY, hurts a lot, and its hard to walk because i would get errection every morning. its serously affecting my grades in school... and i cant seem to concentrate at class..grr!!!and i cant seem to remember things, like not properly, i would study really hard but cant remember it.and i started having a lot of acne, which is odd because i wash my face 3 times a day.<--- what everyone say about masturbating is healthy and has no side affects, its not true, if you do it often you would get negative side effects.grrrrrrrr! could somoene give me some advices to get my sexual drive/ limbido...and i went to some sites, there are medicines but they are expensive like 40 dollars and up. please...i really need help...desprate help...serously...i want this to stop and get back on track...*sigh* please believe me...
:(

[redcar]

Sorry i find those articles so bad it makes me laugh.

You know something like that is just crap when you get to a line that says...
I began to take LoveLonger III. (http://www.herbolove.com/shopping/product.asp?PID=1043)..
It sounds like one of those terrible adds on the TV. Where you get loads of people saying how much there lives have changed thanks to PRODUCT X.

[Aηdy]

Lol this is pretty funny =] Why do people even bother with this crap?!

[zipzapzop]

wow...i thought this site was about helping others with their problems...i gues i was wrong...your not even taking me serously...*sigh*

[Aηdy]

How are we supposed to if your advertising?!

[zipzapzop]

Lol this is pretty funny =] Why do people even bother with this crap?!

what do you mean...this is my problem...

omg im not advertising!!! i research what was happening to me, those were the sites that told me

How are we supposed to if your advertising?!

"there are medicines but they are expensive like 40 dollars and up. please...i really need help...desprate help...serously...i want this to stop and get back on track...*sigh*"

see i wrote its expensive...thats why im asking for something different, coz i cant just tell my parents about this, if you dont believe me...ill take of the sites, so it makes it a lot believable

[Aηdy]

ive done my research, and if you have any doubts about this check out the sites ive searched:
-http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?art=13
-http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?art=216
-http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?art=365
-http://www.actionlove.com/cases/case10155.htm
-http://www.4-men.org/malehairloss.html

This is advertising, and mods please merge those 3 or 4 posts.

[zipzapzop]

This is advertising, and mods please merge those 3 or 4 posts.

i took it off...

Sorry i find those articles so bad it makes me laugh.

You know something like that is just crap when you get to a line that says...

It sounds like one of those terrible adds on the TV. Where you get loads of people saying how much there lives have changed thanks to PRODUCT X.

*sigh* i edited what i wrote and took those off...coz you assume im advertising...
but to tell you the truth, i wish i can take those if only i have enough money and guts to do it. coz i dont have credit card, and only way i can take it if ask my father...

[mRojas2000]

Ok, away from those advertising stuff, you're just passing thru a moment every teenage has... nothing to do with masturbation

[javier1995]

Its Ok To Masterbate Whenever U Want And However U Want!!!

[redcar]

As I have stated in a PM to you, I am not implying that you are advertising but instead saying that the articles you quote are advertising and that you shouldn't take them seriously.

[~Ðarç~]

to put it simple, if you masturbate too much, your balls tend to hurt.
lay off of it for a tad. then start again.

[DouggyO.o]

sounds like a load of BS

i masturbate and i know people who have been masturbating since they were 12 and there 16-18 now. and they have never had problemes like this. if this is happning its probably somthing more serious

[football]

mastubating is a natural thing...once u do it make sure 2 try and go pee as soon as u can to get cum outta there...u might jus have a small bladder..ur semen will get white...if ur really freaked out go see a doctor.

[Cap'nCrunch]

I really don't think the masturbation is leading to your ...
- acne
- fatigue
- depression
- constant erections
- wet dreams

It just sounds like your hormones are giving you a hard time. I wish I could say there's an easy solution.

[zipzapzop]

As I have stated in a PM to you, I am not implying that you are advertising but instead saying that the articles you quote are advertising and that you shouldn't take them seriously.

no no no you dont understand...ther really happening to me, i found those articles after. now im feeling a lot better because im eating right and working out because this helps me build up my hormone thingys and more importantly i stop masturbating for almost a week now =)

I really don't think the masturbation is leading to your ...
- acne
- fatigue
- depression
- constant erections
- wet dreams

It just sounds like your hormones are giving you a hard time. I wish I could say there's an easy solution.

ya!! its my hormone thing...there really low, im trying to get them up again.

As I have stated in a PM to you, I am not implying that you are advertising but instead saying that the articles you quote are advertising and that you shouldn't take them seriously.

grr...now i took of those advertisments from my thread...people think this is all bs....grrr...well gues im the only boy whos having this problem...*sigh* i wish theres someone else who is going through this so they could understand me

[redcar]

no no no you dont understand...ther really happening to me, i found those articles after. now im feeling a lot better because im eating right and working out because this helps me build up my hormone thingys and more importantly i stop masturbating for almost a week now =)
I didn't say they weren't happening to you. I am saying you shouldn't be going what those articles say because they are bull shit.

By the way, don't triple post. If you want to add more info, just use the edit button.

[sashoma]

EVERYONE SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT THE DAMN ADDS, (even tho they wernt really adds)
ok, this kinda happens to me 2, but i dont lose hair
i've asked a lot olf similar questions 2 urs ok. i understand so hear me out. ppl on this site have told me to go see a doctor so maybe you should as well. tell your parents you want to see a doctor soon, and if they ask why, just say it's a guy thing, ok :)

-also ask everything you need to and make sure your parents are outof the room if you don't want them to know :)

[redcar]

EVERYONE SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT THE DAMN ADDS...
Calm yourself.

[sashoma]

srry alex, i guess i got carried away

[Cap'nCrunch]

well gues im the only boy whos having this problem...*sigh* i wish theres someone else who is going through this so they could understand me

You're definitely not the only boy going through that.

[gookmique]

lol, bahaha... this cracked me up. yo, dude, you're going through puberty. mentally and physically. depression is emotional instability that EVERYONE goes through during puberty, hormones act a fool and instabalize the mind. random erections in the morning is due to "morning wood". either caused by you bladder filling up during the night, and having to leak it out; or hell, maybe you had a wet dream and you didn't loose the wood. and again, due to hormones, you're constantly masturbating. everyone, i say everyone loosely, masutbates ATLEAST once a day. some people masturbate even more than once a day, you know? masturbation is self pleasure, for the mind, soul and body. you're most likely dropping your grades because you're looseing train of though, just like all adolecent boys do in school. you'll have to learn self control is all i have to say to stay focused in school. as for the thinning of hair, i don't know. maybe you arn't taking enough vitamins, drinking enough water. staying healthy, you know? everyone goes through it man. don't let it bring you down, you know? peace

oh dude, and the zits? hormones aswell. just deal with the hormones man, it'll do you good. washing your face 3 times a day is a little too much. my skin is very greesy so i wash it once every day, or everyother day and i get the occasional zit. *knocks on wood*

[zipzapzop]

Calm yourself.

SHUT UP! at least his trying to help me!! unlike you, just laugh at what i wrote!! baka!!!

[zipzapzop]

You're definitely not the only boy going through that.

you think? well how come mostly everyone replied that they thought this was full of BS? or maybe it is? i think im crazy and helucinating....gah..watever

[zipzapzop]

OH AND ANOTHER THING! those werent advertisements!! those were QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS SITE!! you know where you ask questions and profesional answers you? NEXT TIME READ THE WHOLE THING YOU IDIOT!

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

2 tips... dont argue with redcar.. hes like the main man in high authority... and for future reference multi quote.. peace X

[zipzapzop]

lol, bahaha... this cracked me up. yo, dude, you're going through puberty. mentally and physically. depression is emotional instability that EVERYONE goes through during puberty, hormones act a fool and instabalize the mind. random erections in the morning is due to "morning wood". either caused by you bladder filling up during the night, and having to leak it out; or hell, maybe you had a wet dream and you didn't loose the wood. and again, due to hormones, you're constantly masturbating. everyone, i say everyone loosely, masutbates ATLEAST once a day. some people masturbate even more than once a day, you know? masturbation is self pleasure, for the mind, soul and body. you're most likely dropping your grades because you're looseing train of though, just like all adolecent boys do in school. you'll have to learn self control is all i have to say to stay focused in school. as for the thinning of hair, i don't know. maybe you arn't taking enough vitamins, drinking enough water. staying healthy, you know? everyone goes through it man. don't let it bring you down, you know? peace

oh dude, and the zits? hormones aswell. just deal with the hormones man, it'll do you good. washing your face 3 times a day is a little too much. my skin is very greesy so i wash it once every day, or everyother day and i get the occasional zit. *knocks on wood*

yes...my hormone levels are low... and its messing me up both mentaly and physicaly...any advice to get it up again?

[The Resurrected One]

I don't see how it was advertising...

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

and theres nothin more painful than empty feel you get in your balls if you wank too much.. ouch i still remember.. not gonna do that again :)..

[zipzapzop]

I don't see how it was advertising...

i took it off, coz people kept on complaining about it and not believing me

[Bankai15]

There is not need for this kind of aurguing on VT none of this relates to the topic.
(Request Lock)

P.S - Arguing with redcar is not a good idea so watch you self.

[Zazu]

There is not need for this kind of aurguing on VT none of this relates to the topic.
(Request Lock)

Agree with you there.

And a message to the original poster, don't argue with Alex like people have said lol. Fair enough you may disagree with him and you can tell everyone but don't keep on about it. And don't bloody double, sorry triple post.

My advice:

NORMAL!!!!!!!!!!!!

Most people go through this, I just feel you are taking it with an almost 'hypochondriac' point of view, you are taking things out of all proportion.

[zipzapzop]

There is not need for this kind of aurguing on VT none of this relates to the topic.
(Request Lock)

P.S - Arguing with redcar is not a good idea so watch you self.

well gues whats, this "redcar" dude is an idiot, he thinks the site i gave him was an advertisment, and started the arguement, i was going to put that site for proof that there is such thing as over masturbation/sexual exuastion, but he/she frigin complain to much so i was force to take it off. Now everyone assume that im advertising, wtf dude, why would i advertise this. frigin annoying.

[zipzapzop]

http://www.herballove.com/
does this look like im advertising??? this doesnt even look like a kind of site. idiots

this one, a list of over masturbation articles, and the side effects
http://www.herballove.com/search.asp?choice=Articles&keywords=over+masturbating&Submit=Search

http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?Art=191
read this article this proves some of it.

DOES THIS LOOK LIKE AN ADVERTISEMENT??? wtf why would i advertise this, the medicines arent even suitable for us(14-18) IDIOTS!!! LOOK! MASTURBATION IS NOT AS HEALTHY AS YOU THINK!! ITS VERY HARMFULL!!! SOO WATCHHHHHHHHHHHHH OUT! IF YOU DONT LISTEN TO ME! TRY IT OUT!! MASTURBATE 7 times a week non stop, and see the side effects if you dont believe me!!! IDIOTS!!!

[thesphinx]

whoaaaaa! take it easy.....
i looked at that site and it looks pretty real, but it doesn't seem right i mean if masturbation was hurting us so much than why can we do it?
its a natural thing?

[Kamloops.man]

just to let ya know you can't get exhausted unless you do it like 24/7! that's kinda bs there.... I think this is kinda dumb actually

[Bankai15]

well gues whats, this "redcar" dude is an idiot, he thinks the site i gave him was an advertisment, and started the arguement, i was going to put that site for proof that there is such thing as over masturbation/sexual exuastion, but he/she frigin complain to much so i was force to take it off. Now everyone assume that im advertising, wtf dude, why would i advertise this. frigin annoying.


Then just stop the fucking fighting. If he said it was an advertisment than its his mistake, but VT will not condone the kind of sinceless arguing.

[zipzapzop]

whoaaaaa! take it easy.....
i looked at that site and it looks pretty real, but it doesn't seem right i mean if masturbation was hurting us so much than why can we do it?
its a natural thing?

NOOOOOOOOOOOO, ur getting it all wrong, its not hurting us.
it only start to hurt us when we do it too much. but if you do it like 2-3 times a week its alright but if you do it like 7 times a week for like 1-10 years straigt or watever then there would be shit going to hapen to you. its like a movie, at first its fun to watch, second time still fun, but as you watch it like 10 times your eyes start to burn and start to get boring.

[Bobby]

Please someone...lock this.

[redcar]

well gues whats, this "redcar" dude is an idiot, he thinks the site i gave him was an advertisment, and started the arguement, i was going to put that site for proof that there is such thing as over masturbation/sexual exuastion, but he/she frigin complain to much so i was force to take it off. Now everyone assume that im advertising, wtf dude, why would i advertise this. frigin annoying.
Seriously what is your problem, are you not reading what I post? Let me repeat what i said...

I am not implying that you are advertising but instead saying that the articles you quote are advertising and that you shouldn't take them seriously.

Now let me put it simply I didn't say you were advertising. I said those sites you gave are only promoting there own goods, so therefore they are biased in what they say, hence you shouldnt take them seriously.

And also do not call me an idiot again, that could be seen as contempt for staff.

I'm now locking this because it's got way out of control. Anyone have any problems with that, PM me.

Have a nice day!

[LOCKING]