Boyfriend Moving Away :(

[Blind]

So a few hours ago my boyfriend told me that he is moving all the way to Florida of all places that is clear on the other side of the Country from me. He said we might not be able to be together anymore and we might have to break up because of the long distance. :( what do I do?:confused::(:(

[Sage]

You're fourteen. Let's get this out of the way: It's not gonna work out. All you can really do is focus on the good times you had and take in whatever relationship and breakup experience you've gotten from all of this. You'll feel better as time goes on, and I'm sure with a solid effort you could find someone new to go out with. Don't let it get you too down for too long, kiddo, life doesn't really turn out the way anybody plans it too. You just gotta roll with things.

I really hope you think on that, as past experience tells me I'm one of the few people on this site unwilling to tell a young teenager to spend their youth yearning away at a computer monitor over someone an unfathomably great distance away.

[Blind]

So are you saying we should just end it and move on because of my age?

[anonymous53]

Sage is saying that it's not worth it. At this age why spend all day staring at a computer screen for someone that you can't even be with for a long while? You can find plenty of other people.

[Blind]

oh that makes sense I guess. But yeah I think thats why he wanted to break up before he moved because he didnt want to have a relationship through the computer

[Scarface]

Tory I'm real sorry to hear about this. I'm sure you two are real close. In my opinion, it's probably the best thing to do. Looking at the situation as a whole, you two will be separated 3000 miles apart and probably won' see each other for a very long time. Unless you guys update each other through social networking or messengers, but realistically, long distance relationships don't always work out, and that would be a very sad thing to happen.

If I were you I would slowly start to work myself out and into the world. I'm not saying to go out and rebound right away, but just don't let this bring you down completely. He is thinking long terms and doesn't want to hurt you which is pretty respectable. I know it's going to take some time to get over this, but in the end, it's best for both of you emotionally. If you need anyone to talk to, I'm always here. I hope things work out for you, but don't get yourself down because Derek will not be the last one. I promise you that, especially since you have plenty of time ahead of you :)

[Ambrosia]

It's sad, and it is going to hurt for a little while, but in all reality it's for the best. You two would end up breaking up in the future anyways, seeing on the distance and all, so why not do it now?

I'm sorry about it, though.

[Blind]

Thanks guys. Yeah its gonna be hard and I know there will be other chances to find someone but we talked about it and it is the best thing to do we will still talk to eachother now and then but we wont be together. It sucks when these kind of things happen but thats just how it is sometimes.

[Travis_123]

My gf lives in prague (czech republic) me in brussels (belgium) we have a GREAT relationship. Sometimes distance can be positive for relationships.. x

[Blind]

My gf lives in prague (czech republic) me in brussels (belgium) we have a GREAT relationship. Sometimes distance can be positive for relationships.. x


yeah sometimes they work but sometimes they dont unfortunately it isnt going to work for us

[Finlandguy]

Thats bad to hear bro. :(
i think u asked him why he is moving.
But life is life. Sometimes you find the perfect girl/boy, then it does not work out. :(
I just got in a relationship with an amazing girl, but i guess in the future we might have to break up!
If hes the one for you, You should really talk to him, or hims parents!
but really sad to hear that dude!