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RelicHunter97
May 3rd, 2011, 09:46 PM
I am planning to come out as Bi to my best friend on Friday and I was just looking for some tips/advice of how to bring it up and work it in. I tried to do this before a couple weeks ago, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. Besides, he was involved in Minecraft at the moment. I am 13 turning 14 in 6 days, 8 hours, and 30 minutes, and I have known I am Bi for three months, but it started in fourth grade.
Infidelitas
May 3rd, 2011, 10:57 PM
The easiest way to do it is just to say it... Or you can drop hints and have him guess. But the way I came out to my parents was just to tell them :)
ikhasgkfjh
May 4th, 2011, 02:34 PM
I told my best friend I was bi a few weeks ago. I wrote on my phone in a text that i was bi and handed her my phone and she read it. Shes the first person from my school to know im bi. I told her not to tell anyone and that I wanted to tell them when I felt ready to. At first she was like "No way. No your not." I nodded and she was like awwwwww thats so cute. Lol. She has been really supportive of me and shes like my BEST friend now. Haha. It may not be the best way but I needed to tell someone, even though I have only known her for 6 months I trusted her very well. :) If you have anymore question or you need advice feel free to contact me :)
Love.Hate
May 4th, 2011, 04:56 PM
I told my best friend i was Bi about a week ago. Best thing is to just say it, if you keep thinking about it then your more likely to get nervous and back out. Im sure if they are a true friend they will be supportive. I got the whole "really, aww thats cute.. i always thought you were" so you never know? They might already have their suspicions.
Good luck :)
RelicHunter97
May 4th, 2011, 10:09 PM
Thanks for the advice everyone...I'll probably make a pause when we are playing Black Ops
Fruit_Tart.
May 4th, 2011, 10:50 PM
Perfect time. Good luck! :)
turtle guy
May 13th, 2011, 01:23 AM
omg i love teh minecraft!!
FullyAlive
May 13th, 2011, 05:44 AM
Friday is today :O
Good luck and just incase you see this before you speak to your friend i too think the best thing is just to say it. It shouldn't affect your friendship. have a friend who is Bi, she told everyone when she was 14 i think? And i'm pretty sure it was via Formspring. But we all accepted it and if i'm honest didn't really care so yeah.
Good Luck.
PAfarmerkid
May 13th, 2011, 06:05 AM
Good luck! I told my 2 best friends I was bi nd they both took it well. One better than the other because my other friend thought it was a bit awkward. But its been 5 months now and we all talk about it once in awhile like its no big deal.
If hes a good friend it wont change your friendship, and if anything, itll make it better, like it did mine.
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