*sigh*

[thesphinx]

Theres this girl who lives in another state and im am so MADLY in love with her its insane its all i think about.
but anyway we talk alot and i see her 1-2 times a year, but i just dont know if a realation ship would work out like that you can really have one if you only see eachother 1-2 times a year it just doesn't work, i think that she likes me she always says that she loves me and stuff and if she lived by me i would ask her out but i just think that i should be friends cause of the distance between us...*sigh*
any thoughts on this?

[mRojas2000]

I can relate, but my situation is a little worst :(

I met this girl and stuff in the beach... she technically fell in love with me when we met apparently... she asked me out and stuff, but please... we were 6 years old and I really didn't understand what a relationship really was... plus, I didn't like her.
We didn't meet for a couple more years, but from time to time she would call me and stuff... you could really see that she wanted me, but I was still young, and dumb, and I wouldn't understand.
Anyways, we started going out, going to the movies together, and I asked her out, because I really noticed I was madly in love with her, and so was she of me... we went out for a couple of months (yes, a couple of months) and she broke up with me because *she liked another boy*. I got so depressed when she broke up with me... I cried it for over 2 weeks, but I said to myself that I needed to move on... I didn't even think that our friendship would really be something after all the shit happened... hell it did!! Like 2 weeks before I went to America, we went out once more, you know, to meet, and see each other again before me leaving and not even knowing if we would meet again. She confessed me she loved me, and she didn't want me to go. I wish I could really do something, but I just couldn't, and living in Venezuela isn't really pretty, so I had to leave her! In the states we would talk like every single day, she would tell me that she misses me, she made me promise to see the moon every night and think about her when I could... I was completely in love with her, and I told her, and she told me she wanted to be with me, and stuff...... really this love grew up to a point that I'm for real that I can't stop thinking about her sometimes, and I just wanna have her for myself, and hug her, kiss her, marry her... but I just can't.... and I haven't seen her in 3 years... but I still love her so much.... *sigh*... AND PLUS! since I live in Italy, and she lives in Venezuela, we can barely talk... I have 5 more hours than she does, and plus she never gets online anymore... *sigh* :(

[Hyper]

See both of you especialy Miguel.. Mostly every person has some1 they ''love'' from the past.. I have 1 or soemthing alike but its just the usual effect of the first real crush that stays forever..

[mRojas2000]

Yeah that's what I've always thought.. the thing is that she loves me too!! :redface: this could really happen if I was in Venezuela, or she was here with me

[Sapphire]

With the distance I think it would be difficult at best. When we are young the distance is such a big issue because we can't easily go and see them whenever we are free. This is just going to be one of the things that you are going to have to live with, I'm afraid to say.

[JoshDude]

With the distance I think it would be difficult at best. When we are young the distance is such a big issue because we can't easily go and see them whenever we are free. This is just going to be one of the things that you are going to have to live with, I'm afraid to say.

Sorry mate but this is true, at our age it is way too hard for anything like this to really work properly. And even if you both decided to go out two times a year, your both probably going to cheat on each other because of all the temptations.