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ajp1993
May 3rd, 2011, 03:53 PM
Right so Im not a virgin. Not been for a while. But looking back I really dont see what the big deal about it.
Either you are or you arent. Yes I agree with those who want to wait 'for the right person' or stuff, but I dont get people who go on about being 'proud' about it and worse bitching at people who have lost theirs already...
I cant be alone thinking this?
moon_lit_angel
May 3rd, 2011, 03:57 PM
your not alone thinking this..!! Some people want to wait for the right person...

I thought i did it with the right person but i didnt. and have only been with one since my first so i felt the second was better..!
PetaByte
May 3rd, 2011, 04:18 PM
I'm a virgin and wish I wasn't at the same time as I'm glad I am. Doing it for the first time with a girl in my future that I really love is going to be special, but at the same time, the non-virgins at school are (almost) always gonna look down on you if you haven't had the experience.
FainAgain
May 3rd, 2011, 04:22 PM
I am a virgin, but im not going to go around bragging. Thats my opinion. And i think those who are sexually active and teens can do whatever they want, and it will bite them in the ass later. But i say nothing to them.
Jole
May 3rd, 2011, 04:27 PM
I am not a virgin, I lost my virginity last summer. I thought it'd be the greatest thing in the world, like i'd be Superman or something.. But its not that great.. Nothing AMAZING Happend.. I don't openly brag either about being a non-virgin. Its kinda pointless..
mbishop94479
May 3rd, 2011, 05:24 PM
Male virginity is a less thought of thing than female virginity. Guys tend to be pressured by other guys saying, either truthfully or not, that they aren't virgins, and so they want to have sex too. Female virginity is a completely different issue. TV shows like Teen Mom or 16 and Pregnant claim to discourage teen pregnancies, but really almost promote it. There are those teens across the USA who want to get pregnant if there's any chance of them getting on TV.

But to the actual question. If you're not a virgin, then you're not a virgin. There's no medal for having sex first of all the people you know. Don't brag about it to other people. If you're not a virgin, don't feel like the minority. Like I said, some who say they've had sex might not have had sex either. Don't be pressured into having sex right away. Wait until you know you're ready.