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mzakpitt
May 2nd, 2011, 08:33 PM
Okay, guys I really need some help here. I'm at a dead end and I have no clue what to do. I'm an ordinary 15 year old kid, and I have a really good friend named Jake, and I have a good friend named Sebastien (Seabass). Anyway me and Seabass were talkin about stuff when all of a sudden he brings up Jake. (You have to know that Jake and Seabass are friends too to appreciate the situation.) So like I said, Seabass was like "Yeah, I think Jake is gay. Like I'm not making fun of him, but I really think he is, I just have this feeling, even if he doesn't think he is." It made things really akward, and me being an ass told Jake because, well, like I said, he's one of my best friends and I care about him. So, OF COURSE, Jake confronts Seabass about it, and everything blows up in my face. What I didn't expect though was for Jake to believe Seabass. My best friend is calling me a lier when I ACTUALLY TOLD THE TRUTH! It's very annoying to have someone call you a lier, when you know your not. Anyway, because he thinks I lied about this, it's really affecting our friendship and I hate it! I just need your guys' help. I don't know what else to do! HELP!!!

Travis Is Losing It
May 2nd, 2011, 08:43 PM
Mike, things like this happen all the time with miscommunication. Things will pass with time and just try to talk to him about it. Like as you said there your "really good friends" meaning there not gunna blow you off like that just cause of some joke like that. Also i love your steelers thing ^^ pittsburgh native

Blue63
May 3rd, 2011, 10:50 AM
I agree with Travis. The situation sucks, there's nothing you can do about it at this point. You didn't lie, and Sebastian knows it. Ideally it'll eat at him enough to the point where he'll apologize, but don't bet on it. I think what you should do is just avoid the topic, try and not bring it up and focus on the other things that make you guys friends. Good luck!