Too young?

[Spook]

So before I get to the point, I wanna give a little background info.

1. I am 13 years old
2. I have a boyfriend who is also 13 years old

So...I have kissed and done the "tongue" with my boyfriend, but he keeps asking me to give him a bj or an hj or just "touch him" down there. I mean...I want to make him feel good, but I think that I might be too young to do that stuff.

Any advice would be appreciated.

~Caitlin

[Azunite]

It's early in my opinion.

[Tristin.]

too early i think. i did that at 13 with my boyfriend and as good s it was i would have prefered to wait til maybe when i was 15. simply so i could mature more within myself etc

[Love.Hate]

I agree with the others, if he loves you he will wait as it's too early to get that intimate I think. Don't get forced into anything by him.

[Sebastian Michaelis]

He's most likely not the guy you're going to be with the rest of your life and you are young so I'd suggest to wait.

[Great Perhaps]

if you're not completely comfortable with it then don't do it.

[suza23]

Have fun while you're young

[Sogeking]

Yep too young. And as others said, don't be forced into doing something you don't want to do.

[Belton21]

Darlin,in my opinion you should wait two or three more years 13 is a little to young... :)

[swindy43]

It is early.

[suza23]

Shes 13 she isn't talking about sex its a fucking hand job most people get those as kids at like 7-9

[RoseyCadaver]

maybe a year or two,but it's your choice,i would wait though.

[sterrso16]

You're still very young. Maybe you should wait. If you feel like he is forcing you to do something you don't want to do, then that's not good. Be honest with him and tell him you're not quite ready. I'm sure he'll understand, and if he doesn't then he's obviously not the right guy for you.

[LiekOmgz]

If you aren't ready to give Hjs/Bjs then I'd suggest not to do it and just wait till your ready to do it.

[anonymous53]

There is no set age.
Only do it when you're completely comfortable with it. If he continues pressing the issue he's not a good enough guy for you.

[Spook]

I told him I didn't want to do it and he said it was okay and that he understood. :)

[Apollo.]

Shes 13 she isn't talking about sex its a fucking hand job most people get those as kids at like 7-9

Where the hell do you come from?

I'd say if you are thinking you are a bit to young then you are, when you feel comfortable and think you are mature enough then take things from there.

[mark94]

Yes, you're too young.

[JoB94]

If you don't feel comfortable with it, just say no.
If he really loves you he'll understand. :)

[DerBear]

Have fun while you're young

i dont think thats the best thing to say

like others have said just wait

[tpzy94]

if you think so then i guess so

[TwilightFan]

It is your choice, we can't really judge, if you're old enough, we don't even know you. It's not all about age, age is just a number. The question is, are you mature enough. If you'd like to do that, if you feel like you want to... than just do it! It's not like girls these days are loosing virginity on their wedding night! And it's not even sex!
But it seems to me, you're not sure, if you wanna do this. My advice: wait till you're sure. Don't do anything until you're absolutley sure you wanna do it!

[HOLEinyoursoul]

Yeah, when you're 13, things aren't really all that clear and you're still trying to deal with becoming a teenager. Moving from child to teen is confusing enough without sex.

[RoseyCadaver]

Um i think you're too young sweety but it's your choice :yeah:

[Mewp]

There is no set age.
Only do it when you're completely comfortable with it. If he continues pressing the issue he's not a good enough guy for you.

This. It's no fun if you're not feeling into it, at any age. And enjoyment is paramount here =3

[MichaelAdams1993]

If you aren't sure then you probably aren't ready for that step and you should wait. If you feel pressured to do anything in a relationship you should talk to your partner about it.

[shadman]

Its if it feels right to you. Honestly it doesn’t matter. A hand job is nothing, but Id wait while for a BJ.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

If you don't want to or feel uncomfortable then don't. Just tell him no. Girls mature faster than guys so if you aren't ready.. then think of him. Tell him how it makes you feel and based on his reaction you will do what you feel is right

[suicidenote.]

Like everyone has said, wait. (:
I promise you it'll turn out to be the best choice.
I did that at about 12 and i regret it fully due to the fact that the guy i did it too didn't really care about me, he just wanted it.
So if he truly cares about you, he'll wait too (:

[alexj10]

honestly only do it when your ready don't get pressured into it

[Wicked_Syn]

You seem to feel uncomfortable with going through doing any of that. I've been in that situation just recently. I went against my better judgment and comfort and I regretted it. Please don't do it until you are 100% ready for it. Not even 99% is good enough when it comes to sexual activity.

[youngboy22]

no u are not to young, it is in u to seek and experament with the same and opersite sexes

[Shane Hill]

I think your too young. I had sex when I was 15 and I wish I'd waited.

[bluestar201270]

yup,you are too young.

[Weeping]

Well, age doesn't matter a lot.. Just don't do anything if you're not 100% comfortable and sure you want to. And never feel forced to do anything, then you'll just regret it. And I bet that wouldn't be the funniest thing in the world?

And if you decide to do anything (even if it's not now), stay safe & take care! (:

I told him I didn't want to do it and he said it was okay and that he understood. :)

I'm glad to hear that. (:
Guys that doesn't accept a no is >_<

:hug:

[Concamp]

I dont think its too early, as long as your comfortable with doing it, just do what feels right. As long as you dont have sex, whats the harm?

[Joshuagoesrawr2]

If he loves you then he will wait. It's too young if you ask e.

[restricted NA]

I think its too early, perhaps do these thing when your older, and when you feel more comfortable about taking these serious steps in your relationship. I he truly loves you then he should be with you regardless to these activities. hope this helped :)

[User Deleted]

I say you are too young, actually, I say most stuff can wait until 16

[mrbob360]

13 is way to young to be doing anything sexual kissing is fine but anything more is not right as you may not know fully the limits that you wish to go through and you may not be in complete control of your feelings so you could come to regret if things went too far

[Texas warrior]

If you love him then I would say no, But if you are just fooling around maybe, I do not know you well enough to say.

[Magenta]

Please don't bump old threads. This is almost nine months old. :locked: