Crush can't jack off yet

[MacMilker]

Lol yeah, title says it all.
I'm lazy so I'll make it short and sweet to the point lol.

So yesterday me and my crush were kissing, it got sexual blahblah. He froze.
I found out hes never jacked off before, well hes tried it lol.. But obv no success
Hes a little kid I mean compared to me, hes 5ft and yeah.
Hes in that stage where jacking off is gross and so is cumming and its almost like hes ashamed of it, we've all been there ( :yes: ) lolol

Anyways, blahblahblah, we talked I confirmed hes prepubescent -ugh
I mean I love sex lol, like I'm a virgin but you know, I'm a horny dude. And my relationships are ALAWAYS sexual, so this is a big leap. Like I like like like like really like like him for who he is, entirely. But you know, I like my sexual piece in a relationship ahha..

So we talked, he didn't really listen. I guess I should wait till he gets it himself.. I mean is there anyway I can speed things up with him? Idk, seems complicated,

hes not that much younger than me, only like.. 6 months younger. so yeah I mean I was an unusually early bloomer.. anyways this post was sorta a wreck, but any advice would be appreciated

[Ender]

Just let him find out on his own, he'll know what to do when he's ready.

[RadioGuy]

Yeah dude, you are only 14 and if he is younger than you than its not surprising. Sure I was masturbating when I was 13 but if he isnt thats fine, and you shouldnt rush him for sex. That would be wrong, just wait :)

[MacMilker]

Yeah dude, you are only 14 and if he is younger than you than its not surprising. Sure I was masturbating when I was 13 but if he isnt thats fine, and you shouldnt rush him for sex. That would be wrong, just wait :)

I dont really want sex yet lol, and yeah I guess you're right.

[Fruit_Tart.]

just give it some time and i'm sure he'll come around to it. :)

[SWMG]

Just give him some time dude

[JoshPagan]

He'll probably find something out soon. Give him sometime.

[JackShephard]

Well when I was pressured into sex one time and I wasn't comfortable I lied and said that I had a GF. so this also may be the case. I'm not saying he's a liar but if the hypothetical I said where true, just do your best to make him feel comfortable. Also let him make the choice. Don't pressure him. Let him know that you won't judge him and that it's ok if he doesn't know what to do. It's pretty basic. At any rate, I'd say that 14 is a little young. But do what you do and be safe! :)

[person842]

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[firesoul73]

hey at that age guys start to feel guilty about jacking off so give him some time till he realizes ALL guys do it and there's nothing wrong about it. plus hes sorta just hitting puberty right? so all this stuff going onto his body might b too much for him and he needs to get used to it. you cant force him into things either

[KFC_Kid]

Jack him off so he learns to wank and u get ur sexual pleasure

[amigo93]

He'll figure it out. Just wait and see.

[DerBear]

you come of as a bit selfish to me

because you want a sexual relationship and he does not or at least not right now

just because you r used to a sexual relationship does not mean he is

why ot just leave things as they are and give him as much time as he needs

so if that means a month or 6 or even a year just let him have time

if you care for him and love him you will and can wait relationships are not built on sex or sex acts

[MacMilker]

you come of as a bit selfish to me

because you want a sexual relationship and he does not or at least not right now

just because you r used to a sexual relationship does not mean he is

why ot just leave things as they are and give him as much time as he needs

so if that means a month or 6 or even a year just let him have time

if you care for him and love him you will and can wait relationships are not built on sex or sex acts


I didn't ask your personal opinion of me actually, if you didn't notice.
And a real relationship is many things.
Including a sexual one, and a loving one.
I never said I cherished sex over his love, its actually the opposite.
but if you've ever been in functioning relationship then you woulnt be saying that now would you?
(:

[smitty35]

The only thing I can say is that you just gotta wait until he gets to that point and experiances it. There is no way you can speed up his puberty. So the bottomline is that you have to give him time and wait it out.

[Houtz96]

you come of as a bit selfish to me

because you want a sexual relationship and he does not or at least not right now

just because you r used to a sexual relationship does not mean he is

why ot just leave things as they are and give him as much time as he needs

so if that means a month or 6 or even a year just let him have time

if you care for him and love him you will and can wait relationships are not built on sex or sex acts

Yea, that was kinda rude. I mean, there are a lot of people in the world who wish they could speed up their relationship with their significant others.

[tpzy94]

try doin it to him n see if he likes it

[chase.]

Just try to relate to him. Use what you know to your advantage and when you're talking to him about it you'll know more about what to say. If you really like him, don't give up, but don't rush him into it either if he's uncomfortable with it. You might end up getting hurt by doing that.

[DerBear]

I didn't ask your personal opinion of me actually, if you didn't notice.
And a real relationship is many things.
Including a sexual one, and a loving one.
I never said I cherished sex over his love, its actually the opposite.
but if you've ever been in functioning relationship then you woulnt be saying that now would you?
(:

i did not mean it like that and to be honest i dont understand why you care so much about this right now i mean as a lot of people have said you kust have to wait and maybe waiting is a good thing but yet again he is only 14 and the other guy maybe 14 or thirteen so maybe waiting is not a bad thing

and yes i may come of as a bit rude but everyone is entitled to their opinon

Yea, that was kinda rude. I mean, there are a lot of people in the world who wish they could speed up their relationship with their significant others.

also i just want to say i did not mean to come across as rude its just kinda true i mean i showed this thread when i frst made a comment on it and they agreed that maybe you just need to wait and yes sexual activites are a part of a relationship but some choose to wait until 16

also you did say your relationships are always sexual his maybe arent

[moonwolf9]

I didn't ask your personal opinion of me actually, if you didn't notice.
And a real relationship is many things.
Including a sexual one, and a loving one.
I never said I cherished sex over his love, its actually the opposite.
but if you've ever been in functioning relationship then you woulnt be saying that now would you?
(:

you come of as a bit selfish to me

because you want a sexual relationship and he does not or at least not right now

just because you r used to a sexual relationship does not mean he is

why ot just leave things as they are and give him as much time as he needs

so if that means a month or 6 or even a year just let him have time

if you care for him and love him you will and can wait relationships are not built on sex or sex acts

i agree it is selfish let him decide and don't dictate what he wants to do and
there is no reason to turn around and be rude to someone who is giving you the advice you asked for

[DerBear]

i will say i know i was sort of slefish but as moonwolf said i was giving advice and a reminder

[MacMilker]

@ moonwolf

dont tell me I'm being rude, I didn't ask for an opinion on how I was being.
read it again and tell me I did.
its not being rude, its not what I asked for. hence I shouldnt be getting replies about it.

[DerBear]

why does it bother you if u were getting nothing but praise it would not bother u but u get a wee bit dis and its like world war 3

dude all some of us are saying is why now wait give me a reason why you should not wait go on give me one and please be something other than i am horny

[cookie.-.monster]

I agree with everyone who says that u should give him time! U can't push ppl to do something that they don't want to do! Well my advice is to help him, help him find his way maybe u can jerk him off so he won't be afraid of it! Try those kind of things and be patient cuz it seems that he is woth ur time :]

[DerBear]

cookie they r only 14 so i agree time is best but just time i would say no point in trying to cox him onto it

[Teen Vinny]

give him his time. does he like to get naked and stuff with you and touch or anything?

[DerBear]

give him his time. does he like to get naked and stuff with you and touch or anything?

i agree time is the best thing and from what he said the guy frezzes up so i would just leave him and be patient and i mean real patient

[DerBear]

Guys he is not being selfish, he is simply stateing that his lover is not very sexual and is put off by some of the sexual things, he is just asking for help and if you cannot give that help don't judge/criticize him for the things his asking for help with, if it was one of you im sure you would not like the "your being selfish" comments.

So yeah as i said, got nothing to say to help him don't say it at all..

well jordan i would for a start if it was me not even post up a stupid thread why cant he accept for the time being his bf just does not want to do anything sexual

i think the fact that he is saying he wants ways to encourge his bf to do sexual acts is whare people get the whole selfish part form

but i just dont know why he cant wait

[PoseidonX43]

bash fest...

just give it time, and always remember that your doing this with a miner(under age of consent) so be careful of what you to do.
Life.

[DerBear]

bash fest...

just give it time, and always remember that your doing this with a miner(under age of consent) so be careful of what you to do.
Life.

they r both the same age i think of one of them is a year younger u thunk

[MacMilker]

Guys he is not being selfish, he is simply stateing that his lover is not very sexual and is put off by some of the sexual things, he is just asking for help and if you cannot give that help don't judge/criticize him for the things his asking for help with, if it was one of you im sure you would not like the "your being selfish" comments.

So yeah as i said, got nothing to say to help him don't say it at all..
THANK. YOU.

well jordan i would for a start if it was me not even post up a stupid thread why cant he accept for the time being his bf just does not want to do anything sexual

i think the fact that he is saying he wants ways to encourge his bf to do sexual acts is whare people get the whole selfish part form

but i just dont know why he cant wait

dude get over yourself, you don't know who I am, just give it up.
I'm not selfish in the least bit,

1. I can post whatever I want as long as its deemed to be proper according to the rules from a mod
You do not have the right to make the calls on whats stupid or not stupid.

2. Like i've said, you obviously have had no actual relationship because its not just a loving relationship its also romantic, I never implied that I wanted to rush him into it, so don't talk like I was implying that.

3. I can wait, I never said I couldn't wait.Shut up, and get over yourself. You're just being rude and trying to prove a dead point

[DerBear]

well its the part that you said u want to speed things up in this department

as thats what made me think selfish and then i showed it to a couple of m8s and i let them comment cause i dont care really

also i am in a relationship and it is a loving one we just both agreed that we should wait and not rush into things.

but i can see me and my friends did get carried away with this disscusion and for that part i will say i am sorry but as i said i stick by what i said 100%

[digzchickz]

Is your crush Justin Bieber? If so, I am sorry but there isn't much hope for him.

[MacMilker]

is your crush justin bieber? If so, i am sorry but there isn't much hope for him.

hahaha omg..

[PoseidonX43]

I think this post has turned into out of topic, bashing or watever u want to call it.

[bornthisway]

Let him find himself. If you really like him like you say you do, then it should be worth waiting for him. Why don't you tell him you like him, and that you want to be with him, but you need sexual satisfacture in a relationship. And if he likes you back, maybe he'll be willing to get a head start. Who knows. The only way to find out, is by talking.