Does anyone else feel pressure?

[Tayyylor_xD]

Hey,

Does anyone else feel pressure to "pop your cherry" I have a gf and have done things with her but when she goes for me I'm nervous she'll not be impressed Im of average length just not got a mature penis so I get embarrased and make excuses. I've told her about it and she understands but she is mature and I think if I don't please her she'll leave me and I really like her. Most people in my year ( 15years-16years old ) have had sex and theres quite a lot of talk going about it! I'm not ready is anyone else like me? :|

[Lil Ill]

I'm not really ready myself, and I'm sure most people talk about it properly haven't done it. Pressure can hurt a relationship, just as long as you two are talking dont worry about what other people are doing or say what they are doing, thats what my mentor taught me

[Dimitri]

Dude, if she is really ment for you she will respect that and if she doesn't forget her. I am proude of you being able to say that you are not ready. I know too many of my best friends who "got pressured" when they were your age and now they are dads and high school drop outs. I am proude of you bud. Keep it up. If you need to talk PM or Vm me.

[amigo93]

Hey that's really great that you know you're not ready. I'm gonna wait until marriage so you're normal. Don't be pressured

[tpzy94]

aye im ready but i mean its whatever its up to you most of my friends know imma virgin but they really dont care they still talk bout it and i dont feel awkward or nada

[Tayyylor_xD]

Thanks guys :)

[wtblife]

Youth is the best time to get this awkward stuff out of the way imo. Young couples generally don't have a clue what they're doing when it comes to sex (most likely your peers included), but you've gotta start somewhere. Also, I'm pretty sure the majority of people your age haven't actually had sex, even if they say they have. If you're not ready though, you're not ready. Trying to force the encounter will make it extremely awkward and most likely not enjoyable.

Btw, I don't mean to shoot down any people waiting til marriage, I just think it can be a lot more nerve-racking when you're older and still inexperienced.

[ajp1993]

Dude, when it happens it happens. Dont get so stressed about it. I was 14 though some of my friends still havent lost theirs. We joke about it but dont do it for the sake of it

[smitty35]

Well I have never had this type of presure. You certainly are dealing with peer presure. I dont think that you should rush into anything that you dont want to do. Plus, if she really loves you, then she shouldnt leave you over the size of your penis. Its not about a guys penis, its about this personality, humilty....blah blah, lol.

[FreddyXD]

If she loves you, she won't mind. Go for it!

[Drake]

Kids your age should be getting jobs not doing that...haha jk You are who you are and be happy with that

[Electra Heart]

Don't do anything you dont wanna do, if you think your ready emotionally, do it

[darkknight]

dont give in to pressure wait till u feel ready