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PlayOn94
April 30th, 2011, 08:53 PM
Ever since my parents found out about my cutting They have been treating me bad.. They call me names, they go days without talking to me, Some nights they dont cook me dinner... My dad has hit me 3 times for pretty much no reason at all.

ive none nothing wrong, they never used to treat me like this... i dont understand.
i dont know what to do. :(

donkeymkong
April 30th, 2011, 09:12 PM
Go to someone! If he keeps hitting you, you need to tell someone about it, like a teacher or someone. It may also help to talk with them about it, usually most parents really do love their children, even if they get mad at you from time to time.

PlayOn94
April 30th, 2011, 09:25 PM
See, im homeschooled, so i cant tell techers or anything. & if i tell my aunt then she might ask my dad if its true & he will most likely say its not true, making me look like im a lair & he might get mad that i told :( im scared.

Syvelocin
April 30th, 2011, 09:40 PM
Call a hotline hun. Child Protection Services. You can't allow this to go on. Have you talked to them about the abuse and neglect? If they see reason, it might just be a misunderstanding. If they don't get what you're talking about and continue to do this, definitely try a hotline.

PlayOn94
April 30th, 2011, 10:23 PM
i dont wanna be takeing away to live with another family though :(

JackShephard
May 1st, 2011, 02:19 AM
Your in a tough spot bud. I've had to deal with only emotional abuse so it's hard to tell CPS and have them make a change. But you have a different case and your almost fortunate in a way that you have some leverage. But I understand that you don't want to get taken away. I can't tell you what to do but if the case is abuse, then I would advise getting the truth out. I can only imagine the emotional pain you go through to know that your parents are treating you this way.

Also, it's strange how it's really sudden. This for some reason makes me think that drugs or some other mind altering substance is being used in the house. Hard drugs or liquor can really turn people into assholes. I feel for you. It sucks. Your parents suck right now. All you can do to change it is to tell someone. Maybe you can get a family consoler or something.

PlayOn94
May 1st, 2011, 08:02 PM
My mom drinks but not my dad, but my mom is nice to me when she is drinking.
i dont know why they hate me now.

JackShephard
May 2nd, 2011, 12:45 AM
This is weird. Maybe it's that they are having issues of their own and take it out on you. In any case, get out. Abuse is something that shouldn't be tolerated. Do you feel that they love you? If not, then I see no reason to stay. Please talk to someone. Just try to get someone to help you work it out.

Fiction
May 5th, 2011, 12:15 PM
Parents can easily get shocked by finding out about things such as self harm, although that's no excuse.

My parents stopped talking to me for a few days too, and my dad ended up shouting a lot more, but they got over it. How long has this been going on because it may be the same with your parents? If it carries on though i'd suggest getting help.

fanox
May 11th, 2011, 08:57 PM
SafePlace 24 hour hotline- 512.267.SAFE (7233)

^^ for domestic violence (and sexual abuse).

They will help you, and you won't immediately be taken out of your home.

thebassguy
June 26th, 2011, 04:01 AM
That is truly awful. I am sooo sorry for you. I think the best thing you can do is call a child abuse hotline. Try this: http://www.childhelp.org/pages/help-for-kids

Travis Is Losing It
June 26th, 2011, 11:07 PM
I was adopted at 5 and my folks didnt like me because i wasnt the kind of kid they wanted because i always had a dark outlook on life and was extremely rebellious so they treated me like crap but my sister like royalty (we were from same family) cause she was the kind of kid they wanted. When they found out you cut it may have caused them to get really upset over raising a kid that started cutting. Now thats just one thing that could be happening. Your best bet is if it continues you should call CPA. Even if your scared of being taken away child abuse can progress at really fast rates. You need to be careful. If it progresses more you would be alot safer in another home. I know it would be hard but it could be your life...

qiuyeanwen
June 27th, 2011, 01:44 AM
I think you parents must be outside is what the wrong!!!!! You can be in the mood to sit down, they talk about if no word that best looking for help.



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