Just another guy needing advice.

[jaythunder]

Hi, I havent been on here in a while, but now I have come up with a bit of a puzzle.


So a few months ago me and my gf Shy broke up, and it was really hard on me and her at the time, so one time we went to the movies just as friends, but then she made out with me. So then I asked her out and she said She had to get somethings sorted out and that I had a good chance of dating her again, so I waited, then she gave me an answer and it was no, because of some other guy. So..........I still love her but there is this other one girl named Alexa that I dont feel as stongly for as I do Shy, But I do still feel I LIKE her, I dont know whether I should give up on Shy who I really Love or try to move on to Alexa, (and if I did move on, HOW would I get her to notcie me?)

[Bobby]

Well I mean.. do you and Alexa talk? What previous connections do you have? Friends, acquantances?

If you don't know her very well, and don't usually talk, just go up to her and start a conversation. Try and find out what she is interested in.

Shy is with someone else, you can't have her back sadly. If you try and break them up she will most likely hate you. So you might as well hold that friendship. If something ever happens between Shy and her boyfriend, well you can make the move! :)

[jaythunder]

Well Me and Alexa are acquaintences and Shy isnt with that guy anymore cause that was a while ago and I think he did something mean or whatever, but yeah.

[Bobby]

Oh, so can't you get back together with Shy?

It sounds like you love her, while you only like Alexa. Follow your heart. It'll show you the right place.

[JoshDude]

Go with Shy if she is available. Otherwise go for Alexa because at least you know you don't really need to wait your whole life to get back with a past gf.

[jaythunder]

Nevermind Im too late theyre both taken now