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gotaquestion
April 29th, 2011, 11:49 PM
:what: I dont want to get to explicit hear but I have something that is bothering me and i need answers and just to get it off mmy chest. It was a wile ago and i was at a friends house with my brother and we did some stuff. A little oral and we did a little anal but no penatration. Non of us went to the point of ejaculation, and I didnt touch my brother, only the friend did. Does this count as loosing your gay virginity to a guy.:what::(:(:(

I dont wanna be bi but the thought is there.
slappy
April 30th, 2011, 02:20 AM
No buddy, it's just hormones.
It's completely normal for kids to do that.
RadioGuy
April 30th, 2011, 05:06 AM
No buddy, it's just hormones.
It's completely normal for kids to do that.

I think there is a point that hormones ends and it becomes that you might be bi/gay. Jacking off together is one thing, but that stuff is a whole other thing.

I dont have a brother but I would never do anything sexual with him, or with him there. I am not saying what you did is wrong but you have to realise that your family is forever. If you did touch each other it would be wrong, but as it is it is just weird for you, but if you understand all the consequences for it then go for it, if that is what you want.
Harley Quinn
April 30th, 2011, 05:47 AM
Seeing as this is in a section i can reply to:

Posters above, that wasn't his question. He asked if what he did would class as losing your virginity not if it was wrong or right.

OP. No, it doesn't, unless you actually penetrated the anus, you are still a virgin.
Donkey
April 30th, 2011, 06:03 AM
It doesn't "count" as losing your virginity, but remember that virginity is just some fabricated bullshit that came from Christianity, I wouldn't worry about virginity unless you have a religious belief such as chastity - life and body is much more fluid than that.
gotaquestion
April 30th, 2011, 10:10 AM
Thanks, just kinda regret and I didnt touch my brother and I just needed to get that off my chest. I was just scared that I couldnt call my self a virgin anymore for phycological reasons on my part.
smitty35
April 30th, 2011, 11:54 AM
I think that just counts as expirmenting.
amigo93
April 30th, 2011, 10:25 PM
You're still a virgin. Penetration would have been neede to take that away.
Fact
May 1st, 2011, 06:03 AM
:arrow2: Sexuality
RadioGuy
May 1st, 2011, 06:44 AM
Sorry, I realised I did answer the question wrong. No, you havent lost your virginity. Your virginity is vaginal sex or anal sex
quietlad
May 1st, 2011, 07:18 AM
Nahh man ... i did it mysalf, but there was no brother , just one mate .... ull agree here, if your in the mood, ur in the mood ... + as long as you like girls then ur not gay ... think of this, would you kiss the guy, if yeah ur bi, if no then it was just hormones
RadioGuy
May 1st, 2011, 11:03 PM
Nahh man ... i did it mysalf, but there was no brother , just one mate .... ull agree here, if your in the mood, ur in the mood ... + as long as you like girls then ur not gay ... think of this, would you kiss the guy, if yeah ur bi, if no then it was just hormones

I wouldnt say that, I mean if you have sex with a guy but dont kiss then thats still gay/bi... you cant attribute every sexual action a teenager makes to being purely hormones. I get your point, but I think there is a point when it goes beyond hormones and you might be gay/bi. Not necessarily saying in this case, just in general
SWMG
May 1st, 2011, 11:03 PM
No you havent lost man
zackm
May 2nd, 2011, 08:40 AM
I wouldnt say that, I mean if you have sex with a guy but dont kiss then thats still gay/bi... you cant attribute every sexual action a teenager makes to being purely hormones. I get your point, but I think there is a point when it goes beyond hormones and you might be gay/bi. Not necessarily saying in this case, just in general

This is very true, determining your sexuality is hard to do but when you do and you come to terms with it you accept it and you actually let yourself notice other guys if you are bi/gay. Trust me, I went through almost the same thing, but no brother.
Josiah7
May 2nd, 2011, 09:07 AM
Virginity can be WHATEVER you want it to be.

Me personally its Vaginal/Anal Sex, but many others are different, which is ok. Its a personal thing which does not get stamped on governement file. Relax, its fine.

As regards to family, Id steer towards no touching. But hey everyone and every family is different. Its your own opinion.