The Arguement

[Spence97]

Well so heres the story, Iwas friends with this guys for almost 2 years and we had a pretty good relationship with him until about a year ago. I turned into a douche and started to jokingly make fun of him calling him fat when he is actually really fit, and then I took it too far and in June stopped talking to me. Every time he sees me he gives me the finger and he even switched schools (he didn't like our school and I didn't help. I feel really bad about what I did and wish to rebuild my friendship with him but don't know how to start. Sorry for the novel but any help would really be appreciated. Thanks! :D

[Contra]

Well, you should say something and tell him you were just joking, you know you took things too far, I think maybe he'll understand that. About how to tell him that, I don't know, you could try face to face, which is normally the best way to do it, but if you can't do it, try facebook to facebook, which is the next best thing.

[Blue63]

I've been in the situation of your friend before. No, I've never switched schools or anything, but an abusive friend is one of the worst things you could do. If my friend that did that just came out and said, "Look, I'm sorry, I was an idiot and the things I said weren't true," it would mean a lot to me. I would suggest being honest. He may act tough and blow you off and not care, but I suggest that's where you start.

[iamniokekun]

^I agree with Blue63

He's definitely going to try and pretend your apology doesn't matter, but just give him time to forgive you. He'll come around. Besides the fact that you're concerned this much about him shows that you're a true friend, despite your previous actions.

[Spence97]

Thanks everyone but it's gonna be really always as we haven't really spoken in a year! :(