Theres a girl, and i want u guys to help me.

[Finlandguy]

I have this amazing girl i like. Shes beautiful, sexy, smart, funny :) I just dont have the courage to ask her out :) i think she likes me too, cause she always starts talking in Windows messenger etc. and i really need your help to get me into talking to her :) please!

[anonymous53]

Walk up to her and politely ask her if she wants to go on a date some time :) Look in her eyes, not at her chest :P

[Finlandguy]

im not actually that kind of a person to take a girl with only Big breasts. yeah, i dont do that. but i wanna make it work, if i dont, i might get embarrassed as hell

[Finlandguy]

give me suggestions that might not be embarrassed :) and im really shy!

[anonymous53]

It's really not embarrassing if you ask a girl on a date :) If she says no, no harm no foul.

If you want to be more discreet walk up to her with a note and hand it to her :) Also what I meant was, be proper. Act like a gentleman.


What to do :"Would you like to go on a date with me on Friday?"

What not to do: "Yo you fine; wanna hook up later?"

[Finlandguy]

i dont talk like that :P and my brother said that i would get maybe marriedfirst because im a gentlemen :) + alot of my age people doesnt say ''wanna go out with me'' i think i could ask her for my house or something.

[anonymous53]

i dont talk like that :P and my brother said that i would get maybe marriedfirst because im a gentlemen :) + alot of my age people doesnt say ''wanna go out with me'' i think i could ask her for my house or something.

I'm a little bit confused by your post. Could you reword this?
Asking her to your house could work as well, or out to say....Mini golf (Cheesy)

[Finlandguy]

i mean that i dont talk like ''Yo you fine; wanna hook up later?''
and because i am a gentle nice guy, my brother said that i would maybe get married first because i am a gentleman. And that also my brother said that 12-15 year olds does not ask girls like ''out out'' for like park walks, brunch or just dinner. Because my brother had said to ask them for to come to your house or something :)
+ i go to theater (acting) she is also in my class and we have a show where i have a crush on a girl (which is my crush) and she has a crush on me (maybe true also) :D what a coincident

[anonymous53]

Eh, at thirteen I asked a girl Out Out, but try asking her to hang out at your house might work. I don't know what you mean about "Maybe get married first because i am a gentleman" ?

[Finlandguy]

i mean that, because i am a gentle, nice, happy and non aggressive guy, so my brother said that ''maybe you should get married first because i am a gentlemen.''
and by you = my brother mean that me
and by first = he meant by first of my family, because i have a brother and sister :) got it now?

[anonymous53]

Ah, quite confusing how you worded that. Now I understand though. Go for it though, just be direct :) And have fun!

[Finlandguy]

i think i should wait a while before i ask her. i have to gain abit energy now, for at least a week, or i could like be her friend first, nothing serious? how does that sound?

[ThatScience]

I have this amazing girl i like. Shes beautiful, sexy, smart, funny :) I just dont have the courage to ask her out :) i think she likes me too, cause she always starts talking in Windows messenger etc. and i really need your help to get me into talking to her :) please!

Pro-tip: DON'T DO IT VIA TEXT MESSAGE! IT WILL MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE A COWARD! Trust me... I looked like a coward.

[Rose]

I'd just like to add in a girls perspective here.
1. DOn't wait to aske her out that makes us feel unwanted
2. Don't ask us right 2 ur house it makes us feel like whores
3. dont do it in a note, because then if she says no its really awkward
If you really like this girl, just tell her how u feel and ask her out to dinner

[Travis Is Losing It]

Finland defently try becoming her friend first. like if you talk to her alot already then thats good and you should defently try but if you dont talk to her alot or never have then you should try hanging out with her for a while before asking her on an actual date alone. try like getting her to hang out with a couple friends that your both friends with and talk to her through them and stuff. hey sometimes the girl even asks the guy out nothin wrong with that so it may even take the stress off you :P goodluck

[Ben Michael]

Ok let me give you my opinion.

First: I know exacly how you feel until I met some of the ppl here I was scared as heck around girls especially the one I like.

Second: Don't ask her out unless you're completly sure if she likes you. Then (now this is just my opinion) try a note, make it meeningful but don't make it poetry unless you're a poet ;) Idk what girls are like in Finland but if she's smexy like you said go for it.

Third: (probably should have made this first) make sure she doesn't have a bf lol learned that the hard way.

Fourth and last: Be your self no girl is going to want a fake guy. If you play a sport do your best invite her to your games but you don't have to be a Lebron James ect. Just do your best and be your self.


Hope that I was even a spitin' of a help.

[Finlandguy]

Country thang. she does not have a bf. i know she likes me, as a friend atleast, and dinner is not like my age thing in finland. we could maybe go for a drink, or walk, or theater, and 1 more thing. yesterday i was in acting class. i looked her in the eyes and she looked me and smile :) isnt that a good thing? and im so gonna ask her out before summer vacation, cause when its summer we dont have school, so its better to get to know each other in summer. cause we have about 2months holiday. She has some of the same interests as me. Like Acting, she sometimes plays video games + she likes alot of the same films/tv-series i like. And one more thing, she is a bit the same as me, (chubby)
thank you for your help. i know that there are much smarter people outside finland, cause in my school 4, 14-15 year old kids use a drug (JHV) i dont know if its the same in english, but they almost died for those! thanks all :) you have given me lots of ideas, and i think im ready for it :D

[Spook]

Keep talking to her and I think you will build up the courage to finally ask her out! Good luck. :D

[Finlandguy]

thanks

[Ben Michael]

Dude you've got her in the bag. You are doing great. oh yeah the smile thing is a great sign :D

[DaFunkYo]

No Fear Findlandguy!! (i'm finnish) Just ask her out.. and if she don't wonna then ask if she wonna stay friends... it works 99% of the time for me... and i am SUPER SHY OF GIRLS!!!! you are not alone! :D :E

[Finlandguy]

I did it. shes my girlfriend now! :D thanks guys!

[DaFunkYo]

I know its been a while! but Congrats!