How messed up is this

[xhelgrindx]

My gf told me that sometimes she loves me and she thinks were gonna last and then sometimes she feels like shes just dating me to find what she likes in boys

[Dunce]

That's not messed up, it's just how she feels. She's confused about how she feels about you. Sometimes she really has feelings for you, and sometimes she feels like she's just exploring and having fun.

[Charleigh]

That's not messed up, it's just how she feels. She's confused about how she feels about you. Sometimes she really has feelings for you, and sometimes she feels like she's just exploring and having fun.

I think thats a good one :D

Also, her hormones. She might want you but at the same time other guys to see what she likes and see what she is in to. She might just be finding out about herself.

Looking from different perspecives, to you, yes thats messed up but to me, thats not messed up.

[anonymous53]

Well, at least she's telling you her feelings. It's not messed up, but if you're looking for a committed relationship that will go somewhere it might not be what you want to hear.

[Bath]

If I was in your situation, I would call it messed up because I would feel hurt and emotional, especially if I really care for this girl and it seems like she's playing emotions. But in the big picture, it's pretty innocent, she's confused. And all you can do is just try your best to understand it, always be there for her, and try not to get too attached because you know there's a chance it won't work. Wait it out a little longer. Keep calm and carry on. (:

[JoshPagan]

That's not messed up at all. It's just how people work and some people just get confused about what they really want. Don't worry, plus, shes a teen right? In teenage years, that's just how it goes.

[Sage]

Would you rather she lied to you?

[Fact]

Would you rather she lied to you?

Precisely and concisely.

If she lied to you and suddenly broke up with you one day for 'no reason', I'm pretty sure you'd be more irritated with her than you are now - when she's being honest and open.

Anyway, it's not messed up. People want to experiment and often don't know what they want, your girlfriend is no exception.

[SuperTgirlTaylor]

would my xgf cheating on me have anything to do with this and her dating like one dude every week??

[Loverboy2011]

If I was in your situation, I would call it messed up because I would feel hurt and emotional, especially if I really care for this girl and it seems like she's playing emotions. But in the big picture, it's pretty innocent, she's confused. And all you can do is just try your best to understand it, always be there for her, and try not to get too attached because you know there's a chance it won't work. Wait it out a little longer. Keep calm and carry on. (:

i agree with her..... thats not fair.... then she doesnt really love you. she is not yet ready for a long time relationship.. :confused: