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WriterAnonymous
January 14th, 2007, 11:43 PM
So as some of you may know, I like this girl, we've been on two dates now, and sooner or later, things are innevitably going to get more serious if it keeps going how it's going. I really like her but the thing is, she has a history of cheating on her boyfriends. And she openly talks and laughs about it too. This makes me scared that if we got together she'd cheat, and I just wouldn't be able to handle that. I really want to trust her and be with her, but I don't want to get hurt. I want to give her a chance, but what do you guys think?

Sapphire
January 15th, 2007, 04:50 AM
Was she committed to these previous guys in close relationships? I'll reword that actually. Were they in serious and loving relationships when she cheated?

If you are concerned about the possibility of her cheating on you then maybe stay a little guarded. I'm not telling you to be distant, just not to get too carried away.

WriterAnonymous
January 15th, 2007, 06:07 PM
Was she committed to these previous guys in close relationships? I'll reword that actually. Were they in serious and loving relationships when she cheated?

If you are concerned about the possibility of her cheating on you then maybe stay a little guarded. I'm not telling you to be distant, just not to get too carried away.
I'm not sure how serious her relationships were when she cheated, but I do know that she was in a very serious relationship that lasted for a year and ended a few months ago, and she didn't cheat during it. Thanks for the advice!

iluvlamp1414
January 16th, 2007, 12:41 AM
i think you should give her a chance. most people change. and if you feel like you cant trust her then it wont work.